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Take 20 marriage lessons from two married people

Take 20 marriage lessons from someone who has been in a relationship for 16 years at 31 and has been through two marriages.

1. The first 1-3 years is a promotion. It is very difficult to love the head as in the early days.

2. The little things that make people break together the easiest to collect until the day of the explosion

3. People who live long are people who grow up together and have the same goal.

4. Couples whose lifestyles are very different. In the beginning, they can bear each other, but after a while, they are different.

5.LDT is to have the goal of someday being together, because if you keep going together like you don't know when to be together, you will soon meet a new person and quit.

6. People who are addicted to boyfriends and are on their own are less likely to quit than those who are on their own, even without him.

7. Dating is a good energy for each other, but if the more you fight, the more you get tired, come back and review the new relationship.

8. Trust is only available once. The next time is to feel suspicious, except for the mechanic and accept.

9. The truth is, the more you get married, the more boring it is, if you don't do activities together or have goals together, like someone who eats a single dish of basil every day, it's boring.

10. Bored. Must have a limit and honor your partner. If you can't do it, you don't deserve a life.

11. Good love is respect for a relationship. When choosing to be together, the commitment to each other in the first place should be maintained.

12. Forgiveness can be done, but don't be stupid. Some people choose to forgive repeatedly in the same wrong. In the end, they have to be in pain.

13. Life after marriage is real, not exaggerated. Not washing dishes, not helping housework, making people stop.

14. Remember that everything is trade with each other. If one party is at a disadvantage, it will not last long.

15. True love does not exist. Every man loves his own happiness, but living together is survival. No one can die for anyone. One day we die, he can have a new person.

16. It seems good to stick together all the time, but for too long, it's like drinking poison, if it's indispensable, without him, we don't survive, but if it's too addicted, it's toxic, too.

17. If one is hot, the other is fire water, both hot heads are destroyed.

18. 80% of people who have a history with their ex-girlfriend, prepare that we will get hit too. People are difficult to change. If flirting before, keep it up.

19. A real couple doesn't have to love each other very much or love the same, just "want to have each other in their lives," and that's how long love can last.

20. No need to find the reason of people losing love. Because no matter how you hold back

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