Help me plan a legal wedding!
Ok so over the summer my partner and I spontaneously eloped, at midnight, at a queer summer camp for adults. Some of my friends I’d met years ago from vanlife events were there, but other than that, everyone else was a new friend. Also, we didn’t go it legally! We planned on coming home to the east coast + legally getting married with our parents present. Well, that has basically turned into a micro wedding planned two weeks in advance + I’m sort of freaking out about it. I don’t know if we should sign the papers before people arrive so they aren’t expecting a ceremony, I don’t know what to feed people and I’m just stressed out my mom + dad being in the same room honestly because I don’t think I’ve seen that happen for well over a decade. How do I get last minute photos?! If ya made it this far, thanks for listening. I feel bad stressing over something like this with all the tragedy going on in the world. #microwedding #weddingplanner #queerwedding #lgbtqwedding #photographer
Planning a legal micro wedding can feel overwhelming, especially when you're under a time crunch. Here are some helpful tips to guide you through the process: 1. **Decide on the Legalities**: Before guests arrive, you may want to choose whether to sign the marriage license in advance or during the ceremony. It can relieve some pressure if you clarify expectations with family and friends. 2. **Create a Guest List**: Limit your invitees to those who mean the most to you. This will help keep the event intimate and manageable. 3. **Food and Drinks**: Consider easy catering options or a potluck style dinner where guests bring a dish. This not only diversifies your menu but also allows for personalization and comfort food. 4. **Photography**: Hire a photographer who specializes in elopements or intimate ceremonies. They can help capture spontaneous moments and provide you with lasting memories from the day. 5. **Coordinating Family**: If family dynamics are a concern, think of ways to diffuse tension. This could even include separate gatherings for family members before or after the event to ensure everyone feels comfortable. 6. **Personal Touches**: Incorporate meaningful elements like customized vows or music that reflects your relationship, making the ceremony uniquely yours. 7. **Post-Wedding Plans**: Consider scheduling a celebration party after the legal ceremony for those who couldn't attend, allowing you to share your joy with a broader circle. By focusing on what matters most and keeping things simple, you can create a beautiful and legally recognized wedding ceremony that honors your love story and suits your personality.
Just now seeing this I don’t know if it’s passed or not but can I ask why you didn’t do the legal ceremony first? I don’t think I’ve heard of anyone do it in that order before. Congratulations on the nuptials! 🫶🏼💍✨