Good Girls get hurt too

Being a wife, girlfriend and mom can be safe. We don't have to abandon ourselves for love. The ability to love is an ability God gave us all to help us grow and heal. It's a basic need for survival so you need it but just know love goes both ways. What does it look like for you to be love your partner but feel the safety of having love being returned back?

#goodgirls #singlemomstruggles #datingtipsforwomen #singleparents #mentalhealthaction

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