When she said I only ever pictured Conrad (marrying him) it really revealed it all. She was never in love with Jeremiah. How can you be with someone for 4 years and never picture marrying them but you imagined marrying your bf of 6 months. She definitely liked Jere and loves him as a person but I dont think she was ever in love with him. I always thought this, but I never had any concrete proof, but this scene confirmed it for me. It was always Conrad. Thoughts?
... Read moreOkay, let's really unpack this, because the 'Team Conrad vs. Team Jeremiah' debate is truly endless, right? Like many of you, I've rewatched 'The Summer I Turned Pretty' countless times, always looking for those subtle clues about Belly's heart. And honestly, I keep coming back to the same conclusion: her love for Jeremiah, while real in its own way, felt more like a comfortable harbor than her ultimate destination.
Think about it: when someone tells you, 'Don't be with him' or 'Don't marry him,' it often comes from a place of seeing something you might not. Belly herself, deep down, seemed to have those reservations. That scene where she pictured her wedding day and only saw Conrad? That wasn't just a fleeting thought; it was a subconscious revelation. It's one thing to care deeply for someone, to enjoy their company, and even to build a life with them for a time. But being *in love*? That's a different beast entirely. It's that undeniable pull, that feeling of 'this is it' when you look at someone. For Belly, that person was always Conrad.
I think her relationship with Jeremiah, especially after Conrad broke her heart, served a purpose. It was a balm, a way to heal and find stability. Jeremiah offered her unwavering affection, fun, and a sense of being chosen. And for a while, that was exactly what she needed. But true love, the kind that lasts and feels inevitable, often comes with a bit of struggle, a bit of growth, and a profound understanding that goes beyond surface-level compatibility. With Conrad, Belly always had that raw, complicated connection. Their history was deeper, their understanding unspoken, and their chemistry undeniable.
It's why, when I see discussions around 'Jeremiah Fisher' or 'Jeremiah and Conrad Fisher,' I always feel for Jeremiah. He was genuinely a good guy who loved Belly wholeheartedly. But sometimes, love isn't enough if the feeling isn't reciprocated in the same ultimate way. It’s a harsh truth, but Belly’s journey was always about finding her way back to the person who truly held her heart, even if it meant navigating a complex path that hurt others. The emotional weight of the series constantly points to Conrad as her true north. It wasn't about choosing between two good guys; it was about acknowledging where her soul truly belonged. And for me, that was unmistakably with Conrad. It's a tough pill to swallow for Team Jeremiah, but the narrative seems to consistently whisper, 'Be with me,' from Conrad's corner, almost as if Belly's own heart was echoing it all along.
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