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The Let Them Theory let him go. Let our lives lighten.

Life is attained like enlightenment after reading this book.

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"The Let Them Theory Let him go. Let our lives lighten."

At first I thought I understood "letting go" to a certain extent.

But reading this book... like crystallizing, like achieving the ultimate stage of life and relationships.

It's not just an ordinary self-help book, it's like a trust guide that teaches us to accept that... we don't have to try to control everything. Let him go.

Emotionally, let them

Whoever comes in, let him in.

Whoever gets out, let him out.

Who doesn't understand us? It's him.

Who doesn't appreciate us? It's okay.

Well, when I finished reading it, it was like my heart was unchained.

Don't explain yourself to anyone.

Don't wait to correct what others think.

Don't be forced to live in uncomfortable places.

Life is lighter, it can hardly be felt.

Because we're beginning to understand that... peace doesn't come from controlling everything in its place.

But from letting everything go in its place.

In the end, we didn't lose anything.

We just got ourselves back. ❤️

An example of the idea I gave you.

1.Let him (Let Them)

We agree that we cannot control other people's opinions or actions. If we care too much about them, we will be tired, vulnerable, and distressed. If we learn and understand, we will no longer have to carry other people's expectations.

2. Give me (Let Me)

After we leave others with them, let us take the power back, focus on what we can control, because our choices of thinking, doing our own responses, when we think, feel that the power is in our hands, not drawn by external influences.

3. Reduce comparison and reduce the desire for our values, because we will understand one day that no one really cares about us, everyone cares about themselves, their own things.

The book reminds us to stop living with other people's approval, to stop wanting anyone to endorse us, to accept ourselves internally.

When we think about it, it's like taking off the chains that hold our hearts, we don't have to do it for anyone but for ourselves.

4. True relationships and mental immunity

When we don't stick too much to anyone's results, relationships are born on the basis of acceptance, not force, and when people leave, we don't get too ruined.

And we will learn that who will come in has his reasons, who will leave, and we will not have to carry.

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