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The first day I knew I was going to be a mother.

How do you feel about the lack of menstruation?

When you check it up, it goes up 2 matches. 🥺

For us, we have experienced two matches.

At first, we didn't mean to miss it at any point, and menstruation was 10 days short, but we didn't 😂

So we decided to check. When the check went up 2 matches, only after an hour, the younger was confused. At that time, we didn't know that that was dropped. Still confused that this was the period? Until the end of the month, we went to the doctor because of ignorance. But if you are not strong, you will come out by yourself.

After 7 months, we intend to have it. After the break, the menstruation comes straight every time. The egg fall day must be exact. In summary, only once released. The menstruation is missing 2 days.

I checked it up two times, so I hurried to get pregnant, afraid to regret the previous time, while pregnant, worried about whether you will fall out again. The conclusion is now giving birth to you. 🥰

How do you feel about being a mother? ☺️# New Mom # It's a mother now # First child # Threatening miscarriage

2025/10/19 Edited to

... Read moreถ้าเพิ่งเจอ “ที่ตรวจครรภ์ขึ้น 2 ขีด” แล้วใจเต้นแรงเหมือนกัน บอกเลยว่าเราเข้าใจมาก ๆ เพราะความรู้สึกมันทั้งดีใจ ตกใจ และกังวลไปพร้อมกัน โดยเฉพาะคนที่เคยมีประสบการณ์หลุดมาก่อน จะยิ่งระแวงว่า “ครั้งนี้จะรอดไหม” เลยอยากมาเติมข้อมูลแบบใช้งานได้จริง เผื่อช่วยให้แม่ ๆ มือใหม่ตัดสินใจง่ายขึ้นค่ะ 1) ที่ตรวจครรภ์ขึ้น 2 ขีด = ท้องแน่ไหม? โดยทั่วไป 2 ขีดหมายถึงพบฮอร์โมน hCG ซึ่งสัมพันธ์กับการตั้งครรภ์ แต่ความเข้มของขีดไม่ใช่ตัวตัดสินความแข็งแรงของน้องเสมอไป (ขีดจางก็ยังท้องได้) สิ่งสำคัญคือ “ตรวจถูกเวลา + อ่านผลถูกวิธี” 2) ตรวจให้แม่นขึ้น ต้องทำยังไง - เวลาเหมาะสุด: ตอนเช้า ปัสสาวะแรกของวัน (ฮอร์โมนเข้มข้นกว่า) - อ่านผลตามคู่มือ: ส่วนใหญ่จะอ่านในช่วง 3–5 นาที และไม่ควรดูเกินเวลาที่กำหนด เพราะอาจเกิดเส้นระเหยทำให้เข้าใจผิด - ถ้าประจำเดือนขาดน้อยมาก (1–2 วัน) แล้วขีดจาง: แนะนำตรวจซ้ำในอีก 48 ชั่วโมง เพราะ hCG มักเพิ่มขึ้นทุก 2 วัน 3) ขึ้น 2 ขีดแล้วควรทำอะไรต่อ (เช็กลิสต์แบบแม่มือใหม่) - ตรวจซ้ำยืนยันอีกครั้งภายใน 2–3 วัน (ถ้ายังไม่มั่นใจ) - เริ่มจดวันแรกของประจำเดือนครั้งล่าสุด (LMP) เพื่อคำนวณอายุครรภ์คร่าว ๆ - นัดฝากครรภ์: หลายคนเริ่มฝากช่วง 6–8 สัปดาห์ แต่ถ้าเคยแท้ง/หลุดมาก่อน หรือมีเลือดออก ปวดท้อง ควรไปพบแพทย์ทันที - เริ่มโฟลิก (Folic acid) หากยังไม่ได้ทาน ช่วยลดความเสี่ยงความผิดปกติของทารก (เลือกขนาดตามคำแนะนำแพทย์/เภสัช) 4) อาการแบบไหนที่ควรรีบไปโรงพยาบาล - เลือดออกมากผิดปกติ หรือมีลิ่มเลือด - ปวดท้องน้อยรุนแรง ปวดจี๊ดข้างใดข้างหนึ่ง หน้ามืด เป็นลม (ระวังท้องนอกมดลูก) - มีไข้ หนาวสั่น ตกขาวมีกลิ่นแรงร่วมกับปวดท้อง 5) ทริคดูแลตัวเองช่วงเพิ่งรู้ว่าท้อง ช่วงนี้เราเน้น “กันพลาด” มากกว่าทำให้เครียด: นอนให้พอ ดื่มน้ำเยอะ ๆ ลดคาเฟอีน งดแอลกอฮอล์และบุหรี่ เลี่ยงยาที่ไม่จำเป็น และถ้ามีโรคประจำตัว/ทานยาอยู่ให้ปรึกษาหมอทันที อย่าหยุดยาเอง สุดท้ายอยากบอกว่า วันแรกที่รู้ว่ากำลังจะเป็นแม่คนมันเป็นโมเมนต์ที่จำไม่ลืมจริง ๆ ไม่ว่าจะรู้สึกดีใจ กลัว หรือยังไม่พร้อมก็ไม่ผิดเลย ขอให้แม่ ๆ ทุกคนได้เจอเส้นสองขีดที่พาไปถึงการได้อุ้มลูกในอ้อมแขนอย่างที่หวังนะคะ

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