[19th year ST teaches] Graduation of "sorry" only in form! 3 steps to nurture your mind

"Apologize quickly!"

Even if you say that, the child may be overwhelmed,

Do you ever apologize with a dissatisfied face? 💦

It means "I'm sorry" to the child

Just a "magic word to get through the place"

It may be because it has become.

As a 19th-year speech therapist (ST),

Having seen many parents and children, I am sure that,

"Repairing the heart is more important than just a formal apology."

In this post,

Leads to a convincing "true sorry"

I summarized the three steps 🌱

[STEP 1: Acceptance] Affirm your child's feelings

[STEP 2: Empathy] Broadcast the other person's heart live

[STEP 3: Repair] Teach specific "action to fix"

By being involved in this order,

The child is relieved that "Mom is on your side,"

For the first time, you can see the pain of the other person.

Apologies are not training to speak words,

It is a "catch ball" that connects your heart with your opponent.

From today, take a break from forcing me to apologize,

From filling your child's "heart cup"

Why don't you start? ✨

Your comments and impressions,

There are also worries such as "This is how we do it!"

Let me know in the comments 📝

May your parenting be a little easier 🌱

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