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How to develop resilience

Why are there people who are okay with the same stress?

That's the difference in resilience ☝️

What is resilience ❓

Ability to recover from difficulties.

Ability to adapt to stress.

This time from a psychological perspective.

Let s talk about how to build resilience 😉

Definition of Resilience

The power of the mind to recover from adversity and difficulty

▷ People with high resilience

・ Resistant to stress

You can recover from failure.

・ Can respond flexibly

can grow.

▷ People with low resilience

Weak to stress.

· It takes time to recover

・ Rigid

Repeat the same pattern.

The point is, uh,

Resilience is not innate.

To be raised acquired ☝️

[Misunderstanding of resilience]

✅ Misconception 1: Only the strong have it

Anyone can be raised.

✅ Myth 2: Don't feel stressed

Even if you feel it, you can recover.

✅ Misconception 3: Once you wear it, forever

Continuous practice is required.

✅ 4: Personal qualities

Change with environment and customs

Optimism 1️⃣ factors

Ability to see positively ✨

▷ Optimistic thinking

Failure is an opportunity to learn.

This too will pass.

i can do something about it.

▷ Pessimistic thinking

no more.

stay like this forever.

i can't do it myself.

The Effect of Optimism

・ Stress resistance improvement

・ Improve problem solving skills

・ Maintenance of health

・ Good human relations

point

Optimism and escapism are different.

Be positive after seeing reality

[Element 2️⃣ self-efficacy]

The power to believe ✨

▷ High self-efficacy

You can do it if you do it.

You can overcome difficulties.

"I have the power."

▷ Low self-efficacy

it's impossible anyway.

"I have no talent."

Just bad luck.

[How to develop self-efficacy]

・ Gain a small success experience

Remember your past successes.

・ Record "done"

Praise yourself.

[Element 3️⃣ problem solving]

Ability to deal ✨

[Step of problem solving]

1. Clarify the problem

2. Analyze the cause

3. Think of a solution

4. Execute

5. Looking Back

point

Do not seek the perfect solution.

Start with what you can do.

You can ask for help.

Learn from failure.

▷ High problem solving ability

・ Do not rush in the face of difficulties

You can deal with it calmly.

You can find options.

Element 4️⃣ Social Support

Ability to ask for help ✨

Types of Social Support

▷ Emotional support

・ Listen to the story

・ Get empathy

・ Get encouraged

▷ Instrumental support

Specific help.

・ Provision of information

Material assistance.

Important things

Asking for help is not a weakness.

Part of resilience.

Isolation reduces resilience.

Connection increases resilience

Element 5️⃣ Emotion Adjustment

Ability to control emotions ✨

How to adjust emotions

▷ Recognition

· Notice how you feel now

▷ Acceptance

Do not deny your feelings.

Permit to "feel good"

▷ Expression

· Express appropriately

・ Do not accumulate

▷ Adjustment

・ Deep breathing

· Take a distance

Change your perspective.

[Emotional regulation is high]

Impulsive behavior is reduced.

You can make calm judgments.

・ Human relationships are good

🔸 Resilience Environment

Not only personal efforts but also the environment

▷ Supportive environment

· Where you can rest assured

・ Reliable human relationships

Moderate challenge.

A culture that tolerates failure.

▷ Inhibiting environment

Always be criticized.

They are isolated.

Excessive stress.

Failure is not allowed.

Choosing the environment.

Part of building resilience

Signs of Low Resilience

□ Depressed by small things

□ It takes time to recover

They fail in the same pattern.

□ Can't ask for help

□ It is easy to become emotional

Become pessimistic.

□ They are isolated.

If more than three apply

Time to Develop Resilience

【 Resilience and Mental Health 】

people with high resilience

Reduced risk of depression

Reduced risk of anxiety disorders

Reduced incidence of PTSD

Reduction of stress-related diseases

There's a study that says

Resilience is a preventive medicine for mental health 💊

[What lowers resilience]

Chronic stress.

Lack of sleep.

isolated.

Negative self-dialogue.

The perfectionism.

Do not ask for help.

Suppression of emotions.

It s also important to avoid these 🌱

In this post on Friday, I will tell you how to develop resilience ☝️

Let's create a stress-resistant self together!

How many of your resilience fits?

# resilience The Resilience # stress Psychology # mental _ health

2025/11/26 Edited to

... Read more私も日常生活の中でレジリエンスを意識して育ててきました。特に効果を感じたのは「自己効力感」を高めることです。小さな成功体験を積み重ねることで、自分には困難を乗り越える力があると実感でき、不安な状況でも気持ちを落ち着けられるようになりました。 また、楽観性を持つことは重要ですが、単なる現実逃避ではなく、現実を冷静に受け止めた上で「これは必ず乗り越えられる」と前向きに考える訓練が大切だと実感しています。困難な出来事があっても「これも過ぎ去る」と思い返すことでストレス耐性が自然と上がりました。 さらに、問題解決力も大事です。私の場合、悩みが発生した時にすぐに完璧な解決策を求めず、まずは問題を細かく分けて考え、できることからひとつずつ試行してみる方法を実践しています。これにより焦りが減り、気持ちの余裕が生まれました。 社会的支援も忘れてはいけません。身近な友人や家族に話を聞いてもらうことで、心の重荷を軽くし、新たな気づきを得られました。実は助けを求めること自体がレジリエンスの一部であり、孤立しない環境づくりが回復力を高めます。 感情調整力は、私がストレスを感じやすい時に最も意識するポイントです。自分の感情を否定せず受け止め、深呼吸や短い散歩で気分転換を行うことで冷静さを取り戻しやすくなりました。同時に、感情を溜め込まないために、日記を書くなどの表現も取り入れています。 以上の要素は、継続的な積み重ねが必要ですが、取り組むことで確実にストレスへの強さや心の柔軟性が高まります。皆さんも自分に合う方法を見つけてレジリエンスを育てていきましょう。

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