Feels kinda badā¦
Of course we don't spend as much time together as we used to in our youth, but it always felt like we were soulmates, and if I would have married first there would have been no hesitation in choosing her as my maid of honor. Yet she did not.
Around 10 years ago I introduced her to another good friend of mine, they later also started working together in the same company. She chose her over me.
I don't want to and will not bring this up with her, I don't want to cause a scene. I'm just hurt. It seems she doesn't view our friendship the same way I do anymore, and that sucks.
Friendships can change over time, and sometimes we may feel overlooked or undervalued, especially during important life events like weddings. The act of a friend choosing someone else for a significant role can invoke feelings of sadness and rejection. Itās essential to communicate openly in relationships, but many choose to internalize their feelings to avoid conflicts. In these situations, understanding the evolving nature of friendships is key. Building connections with new friends and maintaining old ones can be challenging but rewarding. Engaging in self-care activities, seeking support from others, and reflecting on the dynamics of the relationship can help you process your emotions. Sharing experiences with a trusted friend or therapist could also provide clarity. Furthermore, keep in mind that the loss felt is often mutual; your friend may also be navigating complex emotions. Acknowledging their feelings, as well as your own, is crucial in moving forward. Remember, it's okay to feel hurt, but focusing on the positive aspects of your life and friendships can lead to healing.
Sheās now ur acquaintance :/