why does this not sound like healthy?
Nobody talks about the loneliness that creeps into a healthy relationship. Like, sure, I have him but he’s got his whole world of friends, hobbies, and responsibilities, while I feel like my world shrinks to just us. I crave his presence because it’s my safe space, but outside of that, everything feels empty. My phone sits silent unless it’s his texts lighting up the screen. My social energy is drained, even thinking about small talk with others exhausts me. He’s the first (and only) person I want to share my day with, but I know he’s got his own battles too. No one reaches out because “you’re always with him.” My heart just hurts all the time. Why does healthy relationship still feel so lonely?
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I think you are just saying you’re lonely. As someone who has had this convo with their ex and he thought I should get friends too 😂 You are an individual pearl, that man wasn’t created for your existence and not you for him either. The relationship is a checked off box in your life but community and friends seems unchecked