I wish I knew before pregnancy

The amount of people who say sleep when baby sleeps

Like in an unrealistic world this could work

But

Reality is nothing would get done and you gotta take care of yourself at the same time and you can’t do that if your sleeping all the time

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2024/1/22 Edited to

... Read morePregnancy preparation can be overwhelming. Many new moms wish they had better guidance before embarking on this journey. It's often recommended to rest when your baby sleeps, but this may not always be feasible. Understanding the reality of parenthood, you need to balance personal time with baby care. Prioritizing self-care is vital to managing stress and fatigue. Consider joining parenting forums or groups for support and sharing experiences. Learning about baby schedules, feeding times, and establishing a routine can help optimize your time. Additionally, don't hesitate to seek help from family or friends to lighten your load. Embracing honest conversations about motherhood, including the challenges of sleep deprivation and time management, can pave the way for a smoother transition. Remember, every baby is different, and so is each parenting experience. Build a supportive network to assist with this pivotal stage in life.

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Right? I'd never get anything done.. my alternative advice is to baby wear, and get a few things done while the baby sleeps 😂

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