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... Read more看護実習では、普段から指摘されることに備えているため、褒められると逆に動揺してしまうことがよくあります。私も実際に、観察や報告・連絡・相談を丁寧に行っているつもりでしたが、予想外に先生から「今日の観察、よく見られていましたね」と褒められたときは、言葉に詰まってしまいました。 このような動揺は自然な反応であり、自己評価と外部評価のギャップから起こることが多いです。そこで、褒められた際には、一度深呼吸をして冷静になることをおすすめします。また、褒められた内容を具体的に振り返り、自分の看護過程や報告・連絡・相談がどのように貢献したのかを頭の中で整理すると、次回も自信を持って取り組めるようになります。 さらに、指摘と褒め言葉の両方を受け止める視点を持つことで、実習中の成長につながります。例えば、「記録の正確性」や「バイタルサイン測定」など、具体的な目標に沿って努力している自分を認識し続けると、褒められたときの驚きや緊張は徐々に和らぎます。 実際に私の経験では、褒められる準備ができていなかった時ほど動揺しましたが、褒め言葉を受け止めて行動の根拠を振り返ることで、次の実習では自信を持って報告や観察ができるようになりました。これはどの看護学生にも共通する動揺の対処法として有効だと思います。 このように、褒められて動揺するのは成長の証でもあります。受け止め方や準備を工夫して、看護実習をより充実したものにしていきましょう。

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