It comes and goes in waves 🫶🏻🖤

I’ve been processing more than just her loss. She was my last living grandparent, and not being able to make it to any of their funerals, because they were all in Mexico and I was pregnant or have anyone be able to help with the kids, has hit harder than I thought.

It’s like losing the last thread to my childhood, my roots… and suddenly, home doesn’t feel like “home” anymore.

This season is heavy, and I know many of us are quietly carrying a lot. So if you’ve been feeling the weight of life lately too, just know you’re not alone.

We can hold the grief, the memories, the joy, and still show up for the life we’re building.

#grief #griefandloss #grieving #morningroutine #momroutine

2025/4/12 Edited to

... Read moreGrief is a complex emotion that many individuals face throughout their lives, often triggered by the loss of significant relationships. It can feel especially heavy during poignant moments or milestones that remind us of those we’ve lost. Navigating through these layers of emotions, such as sorrow for the loss of a grandparent, can evoke feelings of nostalgia and longing for the past. It’s common for individuals to reflect on their childhood memories and connections to their roots during such times, as these aspects shape our identity and sense of home. In recent years, discussions on mental health and wellbeing have opened up conversations about the importance of processing grief and finding ways to cope effectively. Many people experience grief collectively, where community support plays a vital role in healing. Whether through shared stories, collective remembrance, or simple acts of kindness, finding a supportive network can significantly lessen the weight of one’s grief. Many mindfulness practices recommend acknowledging both the joy and sorrow that accompanies loss, allowing us to embrace our full range of emotions. Additionally, creating routines that incorporate moments of reflection and remembrance can help in navigating the day-to-day challenges of grief. Whether it’s through journaling, participating in memorial activities, or even simple ceremonies, these acts serve as reminders that we can honor our loved ones while still moving forward with our lives. The journey through grief can feel isolating, but understanding that others share this experience can provide comfort and strength. Engagement in communities or forums focused on grief can foster connections with others who understand the nuances of such emotional journeys, reinforcing the idea that no one has to bear this burden alone.

11 comments

WhoAmEyeReally's images
WhoAmEyeReally

Sending you so much love. ❤️🥺❤️

Related posts

It comes and goes in waves.
I’m okay.
kellsie.danielle

kellsie.danielle

8 likes

it goes and comes in waves
📍 City/Country: South Padre Island #lemon #Beach #waves #vibes
vladiorrr

vladiorrr

2 likes

A sepia-toned image of three unsettlingly smiling children with a black overlay stating "Horror books not for f*cking p*ssies." The Lemon8 logo and account handle are at the bottom left.
Against a sepia background of smiling children, the cover for "THE SUMMER I DIED" by Ryan C. Thomas is displayed. A text box below describes the book as "genuinely insane" and impactful.
Featuring the same sepia background, the cover for "MADE A MONSTER A SPLATTERPUNK NOVEL" by Rob Nelson shows a grotesque plant-like creature. A text box below describes the book as "deeply, specifically gross."
Horror that comes very hard
Be careful opening these horror books. #horrorbooks #horrorbooktok #horrorbookrecs #horrorbook #horrorbookclub
Scary Book Recs

Scary Book Recs

2138 likes

Sheet pan chicken and veggies
This is a delicious and quick meal that comes together in no time. Perp time is 10 minutes and bake, you can serve it with rice or mashed potatoes. ——Ingredients—— 1/4 cup olive oil 1/4 cup soy sauce 2 tablespoons rice vinegar 1 teaspoon sesame oil 1 tablespoon chili garlic sauce 5
Emanskitchen

Emanskitchen

1144 likes

A split image showing Mike Wazowski's backside labeled 'Before' and a person's glutes in pink leggings labeled 'After', illustrating a glute transformation for a 'Gym girl'.
A person's legs in light grey leggings and black sneakers on a gym floor, with text '#1 Get your mind right' and advice on knowing what you want.
A person's legs in patterned leggings and black sneakers on a gym floor, with dumbbells in the background. Text '#2 Move!!!' encourages not sticking to machines.
How to be consistent in the gym 🫶
Hello all ✨ 🍋 If you are like me,and you are built like Mike Wazowski,then you may know how incredibly hard it is to build glutes. I inherited V-shaped glutes for my momma (thanks mom 🥲) which means my glutes literally make a v-shape! Although I believe all bodies are beautiful,I will say t
Doll✨

Doll✨

1848 likes

The image shows two dark-covered books, one labeled 'HOLY BIBLE NIV NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION' and another titled 'Still.', resting on a textured surface. Overlay text asks, 'HOW TO HANDLE YOUR FINANCES IN THE BIBLE?'.
The image features the word 'WEALTH' at its center, surrounded by four Bible verses from Proverbs and Ecclesiastes, offering wisdom on diligence, honest money, investment, and timely action for financial growth.
The image displays the title 'about budgeting' and lists several Bible verses from Proverbs and 1 Corinthians, providing wisdom on foresight, diligence, and understanding for building wealth and managing resources.
How To Make Your Financial Success In The Bible?🖤
I believe that one of the major themes of the Bible is obedience to the Lord. These financial principles are real, and obedience to them demonstrates that Christians are trusting God in another area of their lives. Here are some ways that will help your financial success: 1. God is Source: Phili
Angelina

Angelina

1878 likes

Work comes and goes; you have to take a break.😅
#trucklife #truck #trucks #truckshow #truckdriver
SRtruckerroad

SRtruckerroad

39 likes

What goes in hard and dry and comes out soft and wet?
#sueannanddavid #relationshipgoals #couples
SueannandDavid

SueannandDavid

10 likes

A creator's Lemon8 profile showing 4.7M impressions, 194.4K likes & saves, and 10.8K followers, with a featured post about Roblox games having 825.7K views and 19.5K likes.
Multiple Lemon8 posts featuring 'Horror Roblox Games' with varying views and likes, illustrating the importance of thumbnails and niche content for engagement.
A comparison of a creator's Lemon8 statistics from January 2024 (270 followers) to October 2024 (10.8K followers), demonstrating significant growth in followers, impressions, likes, and saves.
EXPOSING HOW TO GROW ON LEMON8 + TIPS AND RECEIPT
I’ve been on Lemon8 for over a year now and I see tons of post of people saying how they are not growing or they’re giving (after only posting for a month). I want to make this post to help share some tips and encourage people to continue because with Lemon8 being a new app, you never know where th
Endia 🎀

Endia 🎀

2684 likes

A college campus pathway with students walking, overlaid with the title 'Surviving Freshman Year In College' in colorful, stylized text. The image includes decorative flowers and the Lemon8 logo with a username.
A person taking a mirror selfie, with text overlays like 'start your day with intention!' and tips about waking up early and planning the day. Decorative stars and the Lemon8 logo are also present.
A close-up selfie of a person holding a black water bottle, with the prominent text 'STAY HYDRATED, STAY FOCUSED' and a description about carrying a water bottle for concentration. A Lemon8 logo is visible.
Surviving Freshman Year in College 🏫
OMGGG!!! This is my first post everrrr on lemon8🍋🍋🍋🍋 And so here is my tips I use for college students: -Kickstart Your Day Right! Start your day with intention! Whether you have early classes or a late start, it’s all about setting the right tone. I like to wake up early, have a small bre
elene mildiani

elene mildiani

1009 likes

I stopped chasing happy and everything changed 🤍
I used to think I needed to feel happy all the time. Like if I wasn’t… something must be wrong. But I’m learning that happiness comes and goes. Peace is what stays. Peace looks like quiet mornings. It looks like taking care of your home and your family. It looks like choosing not to car
Kayla Bowers

Kayla Bowers

73 likes

GUA SHA FOR SYMMETRY AND SLIMMING
Last Christmas I got a gua sha and face roller…the rest is history! Hahaha On the real; I was super skeptical of the whole gua sha face slimming/symmetry thing at first. I didn’t understand how any of it could work and I thought it was just another fad trend. Turns out, it actually makes a hu
Gracie

Gracie

149 likes

Motivation comes and goes…
Motivation comes and goes… consistency keeps you growing 💪 3 quick hacks to stay on track when you don’t feel like it 👇 💡 Save this or share it with a friend who needs a push today! #StayConsistent #FitnessMotivation #SOSFit #MindsetMatters #FitnessTips
Shirley T

Shirley T

0 likes

An iPad and Apple Pencil next to a brown checkered case, with text overlayed: '5 ways to use your iPad in 2025'.
An iPad displaying a digital planner for 'Week 2 | January 6 - 12, 2025' in Goodnotes, with text 'start using a digital planner in Goodnotes'.
An iPad with app icons for CapCut, Canva, and Procreate, illustrating the text 'get creative with apps like..'.
Make the most of your iPad in 2025 ✨
If you bought an iPad, but have no idea what to do with it.. this post is for you 🫶🏼 I definitely go through phases of using my ipad ~all the time~ and then not really at all, but these are some of the ways to make the most of your iPad! 💭 Use a digital planner in Goodnotes If you haven'
Allie Marie 🧚🏻

Allie Marie 🧚🏻

12K likes

Motivation comes and goes.
#LifeAndScripture #WordOverMotivation #FaithInRealLife #QuietFaith #DailyTruth
Life × Scripture

Life × Scripture

1 like

"God Goes Before You "
This is a comforting and encouraging passage of scripture. It serves as a daily reminder that we are not alone; God goes before us to shield, protect, and deliver us from any situation we may find ourselves in. ❓Have you ever felt forsaken by someone? This is a declaration of faith and trust
Patricia Miller

Patricia Miller

0 likes

Boyfriend comes over
Boyfriend comes over. Wonder what’s happening next? parents are on vacation By the way. Come back tomorrow for part two hope you enjoyed my first post.😝
Layla

Layla

74 likes

Anddd now I’m tearing up!!
My grandmother has a flour drawer in her kitchen and I didn't understand why until she told me she can't afford to bake anymore. She's 83 and living on $980 a month social security and last week she told me flour costs too much now to keep stocked. This woman who baked every single birt
Melissa Furman

Melissa Furman

1248 likes

This Entire SeaFood Boil Comes In A Bag
🔥 Boiled Crawfish Seasoning List 🔥 Tbh There’s no right or wrong seasoning to season your crawfish—it’s all about what flavors you like! Here’s a list of possible seasonings and ingredients you can use: 🍊 Citrus & Acids: • Orange juice • Lemons (halved or juiced) &#x
AuthenticTeecee2.0 ™

AuthenticTeecee2.0 ™

2477 likes

A dark blue image features white text stating, 'YOU WILL NOT ALWAYS BE MOTIVATED, SO YOU MUST LEARN TO BE DISCIPLINED.' An orange phoenix logo is centered at the bottom, with 'Lemon8 @rebyrthfit' in the lower left corner.
Motivation comes and goes Discipline? That’s power
You don’t need to feel ready. You just need to start. Because your future self is counting on your discipline today. 💪🔥 #RebyrthFitness #PhoenixEnergy #FitAfter40 #DisciplineWins
Rebyrthfitness

Rebyrthfitness

2 likes

Money comes and goes
Spend it! 💖💸💵🤑 #palacerings #imbroke #jewelryfinds #jewelryaesthetic #jewelryinspo
Palace Rings

Palace Rings

1 like

What goes around comes around 🌎
I do not wish any bad on anyone but something we can’t control is karma & what goes around comes around 🌎☝🏾 #explorepage #whatgoesaroundcomesaround #chosenones #prolificpack #mrking
⚜️MR.KING⚜️

⚜️MR.KING⚜️

150 likes

A black luxury sports car is parked at night in front of an ornate, illuminated building with street lamps. The text 'Find a way out' is overlaid.
A modern, multi-story building with numerous white columns and balconies is illuminated at night, with several luxury cars parked below. The text 'Find a way out' is overlaid.
Several luxury cars, including black sports cars, are parked at night in front of an ornate, illuminated building with people in the background. The text 'Find a way out' is overlaid.
Money comes and goes but time doesn’t
#motivationalquotes #relateable #fypシ゚viral #minimalist #mindsetmotivation
mindsetmoney

mindsetmoney

0 likes

📖 Bible Lesson: Courage Comes From God, Not Circum
Many people think courage means never feeling fear. But in the Bible, courage often means moving forward while fear is present because you trust God more than the fear. When God spoke to Joshua, he was stepping into leadership after Moses. The task was big, the pressure was real, and the future
Jesus’ Keeper™️

Jesus’ Keeper™️

12 likes

Hip-hop legend Treach goes off on son-in-law for e
Hip-hop legend Treach goes off on son-in-law for encouraging his daughter, Egypt Criss, to enter the boxing ring, putting her in harm’s way. Criss debut match ended in a 2nd-round knockout against Olympic-level fighter Jade Jones. 👀 “To My Darling Daughter Egypt Pt.1 , When you Marry a Clout Ch
Kayla, James816

Kayla, James816

4 likes

Boyfriend comes over part 2
Hope you enjoyed my second post. I might make another one today, but I don’t know cause I kinda have a busy day shout out to The girl who commented on my first video. 😊Thank you very much. I really appreciate😊🥰that everybody. Please follow like and comment OK bye hope you enjoyed. @Baddie shrekkk
Layla

Layla

80 likes

✨Elegant Black Jungle Swiss Roll 🤩🍫🍒 goes
💟 Ingredients: For the chocolate cupcake: 4 large eggs, at room temperature 3/4 cup granulated sugar 1 teaspoon vanilla extract 1/4 cup unsweetened cocoa powder 1/4 cup all-purpose flour 1/4 teaspoon baking powder 1/4 teaspoon salt For the cherry filling: 2 cups pitted cherries, fresh
rosario vnz 🇸🇻

rosario vnz 🇸🇻

10 likes

Every Woman Goes Thru 4 Phases
Every girl should know this! Your body, as a woman, goes thru 4 phases every. Single. Month. 🤯 There are ways to eat and work out to best support your body and hormones during each phase. ⚡️First is the follicular phase: Starts right after your period ends. It lasts 7-10 days. You’ll
irianna

irianna

812 likes

Money comes and goes time doesn’t
Money comes and goes. Time doesn’t. No matter how much money you make, you’ll never create more time. But with the time you do have — you can always create more money. Focus on protecting your time, not stressing over money. #timeisprecious #growthmindset #selfgrowth #motivationdaily
Marlos_knows

Marlos_knows

4 likes

Motivation comes and goes… discipline doesn’t!
#gymfolks #gymmotivation #fitnessjourney #workouttips #gymreels #fitnesslife #bodybuilding #fitnesstransformation #gymlifestyle #stayconsistent
@GymFolksBusiness

@GymFolksBusiness

0 likes

What goes around comes around
Black Moon Mystics

Black Moon Mystics

0 likes

Grief comes and goes in waves 🌊
Grief is very weird and unexpected. One minute you can be fine the next you can be crying your heart out. One minute you think ‘I’m over it’ then it hits you again like tsunami the day you got told the person you loved died. There is no timeline of grief and grief is not liner But all in al
Amanda

Amanda

4 likes

A person with locs holds a container of DIY moisturizer, surrounded by ingredients like aloe vera gel, witch hazel, alkaline water, green tea, and lavender chamomile tea, illustrating a homemade hair and skin product.
Steps for preparing the tea base for the DIY moisturizer, showing alkaline water boiling in a pot, then steeping green tea and lavender chamomile tea bags for 15 minutes, and finally transferring the brewed tea to a bowl.
Instructions for combining ingredients, showing aloe vera gel being poured into a container, followed by witch hazel, preparing the base for the DIY hair and skin moisturizer.
diy hair and skin moisturizer ✨
if you’re like me and believe in less is more, you’re in the right place. to me, multipurpose products are the absolute best. it’s super satisfying when there’s a beauty product designed for all over usage like aloe vera gel. this total moisturizer I made has been saving my hair and skin tre
.deidra.

.deidra.

514 likes

What goes around comes around…
#embracevulnerability #unfiltered #Lemon8Diary #love #lemon8bookclub
Angeline

Angeline

5 likes

See more