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Should or shouldn't be good??

The slump to the end of life.

You'll meet 4 people.

1. Someone who helps you without thinking.

2. People who don't think about helping you.

3. The person by your side

4. And the people who left you.

If not blaming himself

And blame only others

Consider that.

"Everything in life is endless.

Absolutely nothing.

Everything changes. "

Bad things in life.

Will teach us to think

Who makes us cry

Who loves and is sincere with us?

Who's ready to let go?

And leave us immediately.

Who's ready to be by our side?

No one left in the day.

Who is ready to leave?

When we need help,

Who is ready to understand us?

And stand by us.

Who is so strong that the prejudice does not listen to anyone's voice?

Who's neutral? Who's light?

Who's ready to face?

Who is ready to hurt us behind the back?

Not hurt, not suffering.

We can't look at all 4 people like this.

When happy, we can't distinguish people.

Because everyone is good

When trying to suffer heavily

We will see the kindness of people.

To decide for us that

Which person should be dating Which person should step away

Which one should cut it?

Which one should replace the merit...

2025/9/15 Edited to

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