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AM i TOXIC

My bf and i are going on one year here’s some

boundaries neither one of us cross

1. no porn or models

2. no friends of opposite gender unless we are all friends

3. no parties unless we are together

4. opposite gender no where on each other phones

5. tell eachother what’s wrong asap

6. talk in person about things that upset us

7. our relationship is priority

8. no celebrity crush’s (lusting over anyone by eachother)

#loveofmylife #boyfriend #lemon8diarychallenge

2024/8/18 Edited to

In navigating relationships, recognizing toxic behaviors is crucial. The acronym AM TOXIC serves as a reminder of behaviors that can harm relationships: - A: Avoiding discussions about feelings can lead to misunderstandings. - M: Mismatched priorities may signify a problem in commitment. - T: Trust issues can arise from keeping secrets, especially regarding friendships with the opposite gender. - O: Obsession with appearances or celebrity crushes can create distance. - X: eXpectations not being met can lead to dissatisfaction. - I: Ignoring partners’ feelings is detrimental. - C: Communication breakdowns can result in unresolved issues. To cultivate a healthy relationship, openly discuss and set boundaries tailored to both partners' comfort levels. Establishing clear expectations prevents miscommunication and fosters trust, thus promoting emotional safety. Remember, a relationship built on respect and understanding is less likely to become toxic.

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Brianna Sowells✝️

A list like yours is pretty controversial, and I don’t think it’s toxic at all. My boyfriend and I have similar standards and it works well for us

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No Celebrity crush ? It’s not like they going to date them

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