After having my child 7 years ago I’ve gain over 60Lbs I’ve always weighed about 135-137lbs before her so after birth coming down to 160-175 I was devastated 😞
I didn’t wear my cute little crops anymore! I wouldn’t even put in a dress 😣 I didn’t like anything that hugged my body!
I also turned into an emotional eater that put me at 204lbs by last year August 😪
My new year resolution was to loose about 40lbs to get back to the weight I hated 😂🙈 I so appreciate it now but postpartum is a real thing ladies! U have to stay positive or be around people that really motivate u to do better 💪🏽
I started the Daniel fast at the beginning of the year Jan. 3rd to be exact and I was scared to step on a scale BUT I did and was shocked at the results! I now weight 180lbs and I’m still in disbelief that I lost the weight that I did! I just need to stay motivated keep the discipline and add a workout routine to my week and I’ll be ok! I feel great and I’m definitely more confident 😏
... Read moreIt's so easy to get caught up in how our bodies look, especially after big life changes like having a baby. I totally get it! My journey wasn't just about the numbers on the scale; it was about truly finding peace with myself. When I started focusing on how my body felt and what it *could do*, instead of just its appearance, everything began to shift. This is where the idea of body neutrality or even body positivity really comes in handy. It’s not always about loving every single part of your body every single day, but more about respecting it and appreciating it for carrying you through life.
If you're also on a path to feeling better in your skin, here are some things that truly helped me – maybe they'll resonate with you too!
First, daily affirmations can be incredibly powerful. It might sound a bit cheesy at first, but speaking kind words to yourself, particularly when you catch your reflection, makes a huge difference. Instead of scrutinizing, try saying things like, 'My body is strong and capable,' or 'I am grateful for all my body does for me.' You don't have to believe it 100% at first; just the act of saying it can start to rewire your brain. I remember taking mirror selfies, not to check for flaws, but to practice seeing myself with kindness. It felt awkward at first, especially when I was wearing my favorite black top and black pants, but it gradually became a moment of self-acceptance.
Second, focus on nourishment, not just restriction. The Daniel Fast taught me so much about intentional eating and fueling my body with wholesome foods. It wasn't about deprivation, but about giving my body what it truly needed. Think about adding vibrant fruits, vegetables, and whole grains, rather than just cutting things out. This shift in perspective made me feel more energized and less deprived.
Third, gentle movement and listening to your body. Before, exercise felt like a punishment. Now, I try to find joyful ways to move, whether it's a brisk walk, dancing around the living room, or even just stretching. It's about respecting my body's limits and celebrating its capabilities, not pushing it to exhaustion. Even simple things like taking a moment to appreciate how my body feels while posing indoors near glass doors, feeling the natural light, can be a grounding experience.
Finally, build a supportive community. Surrounding myself with people who uplift and motivate me, just like I mentioned in my story, was crucial. Whether it's online or in real life, having a cheerleading squad makes the tough days easier. Remember, your journey is unique, and it's okay to have ups and downs. The goal isn't perfection, but progress and a growing sense of self-acceptance. Let's embrace our bodies, flaws and all, and celebrate the incredible vessels that carry our spirits every single day!
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