The point is to change your expectations. Because when you don’t have any, you can’t get let down. You are already doing these things as it is. What I’m saying is to STOP making his life easier. You have to reevaluate the things you’re doing and where you can drop things. You might not think you ca

This is a resentful place to be because women aren’t allowed to use their issues as an excuse to not show up. We aren’t even allowed to use our daily hormone changes as an excuse. Throw in a late-stage adhd diagnosis and it’s a wonder women are functioning successfully at all - but we are. And tha

The starter husband is particularly exhausting because of how manipulative he is. The cycle he keeps you in of promising change, getting your hopes of, seeing glimmers of change, only to be let down again wears a woman down. And it wears her down on purpose. Because the more worn down she gets, the

Don’t twist my words. I’m not saying therapy and meds cannot help women. They absolutely can. And should be used as treatment. What I am saying is that even with those things it likely won’t be enough if she is still the default parent and decision maker. If she is still carrying the majority of

Super sad to see not only giving away speaking engagements to men at a conference for mothers, but also welcoming and platforming diet culture. Motherhood is a unique experience that doesn’t really cross the barrier into fatherhood. It doesn’t relate the same way. There are so few places that are

Maybe you’ve dealt with it first hand, or maybe you’ve seen the videos from women of their boyfriends and husbands being lost to this type of content. Becoming unrecognizable and hateful toward them. There will continue to be a rise in it and likely a further rise in divorce. But the level of harm

The second hardest thing is learning to let balls drop if you decide to stay. Because your husband isn’t capable of being who you need him to be. Most men aren’t. You have reached the deepest emotional depth he has available. So you get to decide now - do you want radically accept him as he is, com

Women often get frustrated with these hobbies because we don’t get the same luxury. We can’t casually go for a run for 2 hours or spend 5+ hours golfing on a Saturday morning or going on a week-long hunting trip because what women return home to and what men return home to are not the same. When h

Here’s a man centering himself and not listening to women whatsoever. It’s just me me me me me ‘what am I supposed to do?’ Once again proving the selfishness of most hobby husbands.

Always one ear to the ground but it’s also not getting in the way of me doing my nails 💅🏼

When I said men are defaulters, this is what I meant. And again, sounds great in theory until you realize you don’t have a partner, you have a puppy waiting for commands. And as women we are conditioned to believe that the family is and should be our primary focus. But so often that leaves us bur

Are you a control freak or has your husband shown you one too many times that he’s untrustworthy and unreliable? Women aren’t born control freaks. Whether through childhood or adulthood, we were forced to overfunction by another adult. But calling women control freaks is an easy way for husbands

Wish I was joking but I’m not. It’s a literal daily occurrence at this point 😂😂😂

So wait. You’re taking all the lessons you learned from abusing and coercing your wife and now you’re selling those to other men with the goal of keeping your wife from divorcing you and getting more s3x? Brotha ughhhhhhhh

Sir please be so for real. You work and mow the lawn a few times a year. Take all the seats, peanut gallery.

Women don’t get a playbook when they becomes wives. Mothers don’t get a playbook when they have kids. Yet we somehow know exactly what needs to be done without asking without reminding. Without telling. Women don’t get married hoping to change a man. They get married hoping to have a partner. W

The majority of women have been coerced at one point in their life to have s3x when they didn’t want to because they knew what they would have to deal with if they said no. This is a question I kept getting as I’m dissecting these husbands - “but what do I do when he still want s3x?” Because sayi

It is in fact your husband and the system women are forced to operate under. The one that doesn’t support them but expects them to keep showing up, providing their free labor, their paid labor while sucking the life out of them. Blaming EVERYTHING and EVERYONE but the system is another way of sile

You’re not entitled to anyone’s intimacy and too few men understand that.

Mothers are so selfless they don’t even demand attention to their own crisis. Part of that is because we don’t resort to dangerous behaviors when we go unseen and unnoticed. Society is so quick to address male loneliness because the result of that puts society in danger. Men stop functioning as p