Alright girls I need advice

So I have been recently talking to this guy but I don’t know how to like move forward if that makes since. When it comes to hanging out with someone I am a very anxious girly so when it’s someone i don’t like and like a friend i’m good but when its someone i’m talking to i freak!

So what’s the best thing to do? Where’s the best place to “meet” for the first time? Please i need help asap i don’t wanna like be uncomfortable or it be awkward…#letschat #lemon8contest

2025/3/9 Edited to

... Read moreNavigating the world of dating can be both exciting and nerve-wracking, especially for those who experience anxiety. If you're in a situation where you're unsure about how to move forward with a new connection, it's important to prioritize comfort. Consider choosing a casual setting for your first meeting, such as a coffee shop or a relaxed park, where you can engage in conversation without pressure. Activities like mini-golf, or visiting a local market can also create a fun and low-stress atmosphere. Being open about your feelings can help ease anxiety. Let your date know that this is your first time meeting and that you're a bit nervous. Sharing common interests can also provide a great conversation starter and help create a bond. Additionally, planning ahead can make a significant difference; think about topics you might like to discuss or questions you want to ask. This can help you feel more prepared and less overwhelmed. Remember that it's completely normal to feel anxious. Many people share these feelings, and a little laughter can go a long way in breaking the ice. Don't hesitate to seek support from friends or the Lemon8 community where you can share experiences and advice. The key is to take things at your own pace, and focus on enjoying the moment.

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if you still need help, i would suggest somewhere where you have something to do, so its not a big problem if you two aren't very comfortable with each other yet! one suggestion I have it bowling, just since its simple and it kinda breaks the ice naturally

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