Allie Hoffmeister

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Autistic Child Trying New Food 🫣

If we can add a new food to the small menu she eats it is such a win!!! #momlife #momsoflemon8 #mom #autistic

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TOP 5 SENSORY TOOL FOR YOUR AUTISTIC CHILD💙

These are some of the best sensory tools for autistic children because they help with calming, focus, and body regulation all in different ways. The sensory swing provides a gentle hugging pressure and soothing movement, the trampoline helps release energy and improves focus through repetitive jump

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I am a LGBTQIA+, Chronically-ill, Autistic teacher

And I struggle. I am a human being. Sure, I have good days and not-so-good days, where my pain flares up and I feel dysphoric and the sound of students makes me want to scream due to overstimulation. Sure I cry a lot in my free time, and sleep as soon as I get home, I forget to eat and drink. S

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ESY for your autistic child

#autism #esy #iep

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Your autistic child may qualify for free diapers!!

This benefit has saved our family SO MUCH MONEY and I hope it will save your family some money too! 🙏🙏 Be sure to check out my full playlist here on my TikTok page for all the details on this amazing resource! 🥰 #AutismSupport #SpecialNeedsParents #autismawareness #autismacceptance

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Funny texts from my autistic boyfriend

Me and my boyfriend have autism and I love to screenshot some of the stuff he says, here’s a few for you guys #boyfriend #autisticadult #text #funny #lifestyle

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Potty Training Your Autistic Child- Tip #3

Potty training an autistic child can feel overwhelming. But you are not behind, and you are not alone. 💛 Making the potty a safe space can make a huge difference, because sometimes just getting them to feel comfortable with the potty is half the battle. Progress matters more than perfection.

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Your autistic child may qualify for SSI income! 💙

Comment “playlist” if you want me to send you the link to my playlist on how to apply for SSI. ✅ #autistic #autisticadult #autisticwomen #resource #autisticspectrumdisorder

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Autistic girl guide to navigating theme parks

One of my special interests is theme parks. I never got to go to any of the big ones as a kid, but I remember going to smaller theme parks on road trips with my family. Sometime after my spouse proposed, I became even more interested, and fell in love with Disneyland, Disney World and Universal

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A person sits on a window ledge, looking out at city buildings, with text explaining that autistic meltdowns are a nervous system response to overwhelm, not a choice or behavior problem.

A person sits on a window ledge, looking out at city buildings, with text explaining that autistic adult meltdowns occur after long periods of masking and pushing past limits.

A person sits on a window ledge, looking out at city buildings, with text explaining that meltdown behaviors like crying or going nonverbal are due to overload, not control or intention.

What Autistic Meltdowns Actually Are (and What They’re Not)

Autistic meltdowns are widely misunderstood, especially in adults who learned early how to mask. When someone has spent years pushing through discomfort, overriding sensory strain, and prioritizing appearing “fine,” it makes sense that the system eventually reaches capacity. A meltdown isn’t a str

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How to cruise with your autistic child

Comment “MORE” if you want a part 3! 💙 TAKE YOUR AUTISTIC CHILD ON A CRUISE!!!🚢 THEY ARE SO ACCOMMODATING & YOU’RE WHOLE FAMILY WILL HAVE A BLAST! 🥳 #cruise #vacations #autisticspectrumdisorder #autistic #autismmom

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Parenting as an autistic ADHDer

Some might say, "if you're so overwhelmed, why did you have kids in the first place?" And truthfully? I had no idea I was autistic or ADHD before having children. How was I supposed to know I would be in a chronic state of overwhelm every day? And besides that, parents are allowed to

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Accommodations that help me as an autistic SLP 🎧🗓️

🤍Even before I was formally diagnosed, I had work accommodations under my diagnosis of Anxiety. Here are most of my accommodations! I believe i will be asking for a few more to keep everything running smoothly- but these will be related to my POTS instead. ❣️Do we want to hear what else I do at

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How to potty train your autistic child

Comment “potty” if you want me to send you my guide. #autisticspectrumdisorder #autistic #autistictoddler #autisticchildren #autisticspectrum

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Why My Autistic Child Needs to Chew

💡 Sensory Deep Dive: Why My Autistic Child Needs to Chew If you see my child chewing on a sleeve or their silicone necklace, please know it's not a 'bad habit'—it’s a powerful tool for self-regulation and sensory input. This is our reality navigating oral fixation on the autism spect

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Autism Travel Safety for Autistic Child riding the Metro

Metro Safety Tips for Autism Families • Wear a crossbody bag in the front at all times • Invest in a high-quality crossbody bag with secure zippers • If using a backpack, wear it in the front in crowded spaces • Keep valuables minimal and close to your body • Avoid putting anything important

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Was Marilyn Monroe autistic?

#autistic #autisticadult #marilynmonroe

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A mother and her baby are nose-to-nose, appearing to share a tender moment. Text overlay describes the baby's early behaviors like 'Hang banging, babbling, whining' and sensitivities to 'Food textures' and 'loud noises'.

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Autistic child 🥹

Swipe 🫶🏽🥹 #autismboys #autistictoddler #autismawarenessmonth💙 #Lemon8Diary #momlife

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A woman in a black beanie and light-colored knit sweater, with text overlays discussing "SENSORY STRUGGLES" and questions like "IS IT TOO TIGHT?", "TOO LOOSE?", "SCRATCHY?", and "TOO HOT?" related to clothing comfort.

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How clothing effects me as an autistic girly

Honestly, I only leave my house a couple of times each week, and when I do, I like to look cute. But looking cute can also be comfy, which is something I require as an autistic ADHDer. My rules? NO scratchy tags, no jeans and no heels. I did that for a long time and all I got was grouchy and ove

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Sensory hacks for autistic/neurodivergent people

How to make your home a pleasant place when you’re hypersensitive: VISUAL •multiple small/dim light sources>>> one bright overhead light •warm light is gentler on the eyes than white light •unscented candles (esp tea lights) are a nice light- but avoid these if you don’t like f

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What Autistic Families Go Through

Be there for Autistic families 🥰 I promise you, you have no idea what that family is really going through. 🥺 #autismawareness #autismacceptance #autisticspectrumdisorder #autism #autistic

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How to cruise with your Autistic child💙

I’m telling you guys!!! 🚢 Cruising is the way to go for autistic families! #autisticfamily #cruise #vacations #autisticmom #autismmom

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A red-haired child in overalls plays with dirt, sifting it through their fingers. The accompanying text reads, "He's never told us he wants to go outside, but we know how much he loves playing in the dirt."

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Insight into life with an autistic child 💚

Understanding and loving an autistic child isn’t as hard as you like to think it is #autismjourney #autistictoddler #autismawareness #autisticfamily #autistictoddlers

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More texts from my autistic bf

More texts from my autistic boyfriend because y’all seemed to love that last one. We talk to each other like this, this isn’t meant to make fun of him at all ♥️ #boyfriend #autisticadult #funny #lifestyle #texts

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🧩If you have an autistic family member…

🥰 If you’re a grandparent to an autistic child…. please BE THERE 💙🙏 It’s such a blessing to have parents that adore and accept their autistic grandchilld #autistic #inclusionmatters #autismawareness #autismacceptance

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Teacher Tips: 6 Strategies for Autistic Students

As a teacher and mother to an autistic adult son, I can offer some insights. First, let me validate that it can be really challenging to work with folks on the spectrum. Understanding that they can't help the way their brains are wired helps. It is also useful to reframe and see their way as j

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Sensory struggled as an autistic girlie

While my food struggles have gotten better with time, they are not entirely eliminated. These are some ways I try to find new safe foods as an autistic ADHDer! My current faves are homemade bread and canned jam 😋 what’s your fridge currently stocked with? #actuallyautistic #autism #au

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Autistic Affirmations

Say these affirmations with me You’re worthy You’re priceless A diamond A shooting star You’re holy You’re righteous You’re perfect That’s who you are We may feel alone at times. This journey can be hard. Just remember who you are. You are responsible for you. Build yourself up DAIL

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Teach your autistic child how to do CHORES

Teaching your autistic child how to do chores can be difficult. However it’s important for our kids to gain some independence. Consistency and Patience is KEY! 🔑 #autismawareness #autisticfamily #chore #cleanhome #autistic

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Free Diapers & Wipes for your Autistic Child

Comment “diapers” if you would like for me to send you the simple steps on how to see if your child qualifies for free diapers and wipes. #diapers #wipes #autism #autistic #autisticspectrumdisorder

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Potty Training Tips for your Autistic Child

Tip number 1. My son is level 3 autistic and over a year and a half ago he became fully potty trained, and here’s what has worked for us. 💙 #potty #pottytraininingmama #autismawareness #specialneedsmom #autism

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Books for siblings w/an autistic child 🖤

Someone sent me this book and from there I ordered it right away off Amazon! This book is so well written and thought out. I love the representation of two Black sibling twins. (my kids are biracial and not twins but my daughter is 6 and my son who's autistic is 2 1/2, it's been hard na

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Job/internships for Autistic Adults

I hope this video is informative to you all! Please don’t hesitate to comment below on questions/ and or Autism tips i should cover next! Stay marvelous! #lemon8diarychallenge #autismatwork #autistic #autisticinsights #autism #autisticspectrum #autisticadult #neurodivergent

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💙Free Cruise Grant for Autistic Families🧩

Go to the link provided to get onto their mailing list😃 #travelingwithautism #vacation #autistic #autisticspectrumdisorder #cruisetravel

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Communicating with my autistic son

So happy he FINALLY uses his PEC BOOK (video cut off from TikTok. It was too long)

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A TOP Sensory MUST HAVE for your autistic child! 🧩

#autismoftiktok #autism #autismawareness #autismacceptance #autistic

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A light blue background with yellow stars features the heading "Practice." Text explains introducing the potty without expectation, emphasizing "Practice MAKES Progress" for potty training.

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Potty training my autistic son

#autism #fyp #parenting

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Things seen as childish as a autistic person

#autistic #plussizecontentcreator #autisticadult #autisticwomen #disabledcreator

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i’m autistic! so what?

♾️autism is a developmental disorder that impacts how i interpret everything in the world around me, and how i react to it ♾️i am level 2 ♾️i love to share information about autism spectrum disorder to raise awareness! ♾️ask me anything down below⬇️💘 #Lemon8Diary #autism #autisminwomen #

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An open page of the workbook displays "CHAPTER 1 What Is Autistic Burnout?" in large blue text. The page number 11 is visible at the bottom.

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Workbook Review: Autistic Burnout 🥵

This workbook has truly been such a validating read for me. It breaks down masking, spoon theory, sensory overwhelm, and nervous system regulation that makes everything feel “human” instead of clinically overwhelming. What I appreciate most is how deeply relatable it is. There were so many mome

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A tapestry featuring a sun with a face and sunflowers, serving as a title card for "weekday Mornings with an autistic kid."

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Autistic Kid GRWM

I wish I could have included a pic of him slung over my shoulder this morning because we decided our legs were not going to be utilized for walking today. Unfortunately my arms were full of child. Not every morning goes smoothly at ALL. There is a routine to how we try to do things with him, bu

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Autistic people just know who doesn’t like them

#nuerodivergant #autistic #unfiltered #autisticadult

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Take your Autistic child on a CRUISE!

Part 3: Five reasons why you should take your autistic child on a cruise! 🚢🥳🥰 #cruise #vacations #autistic #autisticfamily #autismmom

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Healing as an autistic ADHDer

Prior to my diagnoses, I felt overall like an unhealed person. Aside from the trauma I experienced throughout my life, I just generally felt a bit out of place. Looking back, it’s likely because I didn’t know I was autistic or ADHD. And because of this, I didn’t have the accommodations in place

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A hand holds a cup of mini dino-shaped chicken nuggets, showing 32g protein per serving, in a store freezer. This new item is suitable for toddlers.

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Toddler & Autistic Parents

To All Toddler And Autistic Parents Go To Walmart #autismtoddlers #foods #walmartfinds #onthegosnacks

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I’m Autistic!*ੈ✩‧₊˚

What does it mean to be autistic to me? I wasn’t diagnosed until I was 18 years old, so I’m honestly still discovering a lot of what it means to me. So far, I know that it means: •I struggle with social interactions •I’m sensitive to textures and sounds •I get overwhelmed in busy places •I

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Changing our entire lives for our autistic child😢

FLASHBACK FROM 1 YEAR AGO TODAY: Even though the school system didn’t work out down here for my autistic son, I still have to say that moving to FL over 5 years ago for my autistic son was still a good move! Florida has a lot of resources for autistic individuals and their families, and the health

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My favorite autistic and adhd celebrities

#audhd #audhdtok #audhdtok #autism #actuallyautistic #neurodivergent #adhd #actuallyadhd #autistic #neurodivergenttiktok #autismawareness #asd #videodiary #fidgets #autisticgirl #hiddendisabilities #autismadvocate #autisticadult #autisticcreator #digitaldiary #dayinmylife #spendadaywithme

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Parenting an autistic child while being autistic.🫶

A little vulnerable post for Monday. Parenting is hard with a “normal” kid already. You make life worth it. We have our highs/lows. #autism #autisticcreator #autismacceptance #Lemon8Diary

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If your child has oral delays try this!

Speech and eating is a important thing to learn for children. Unfortunately, some children like mine develop speech delays and it's more common with children who are autistic (often speech delays is the first sign of often in some cases) If your child is autistic & or has oral delays try

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How to get free Diaper for your Autistic Child

#diaper #pullups #wipes #autisticspectrumdisorder #autisticwomen

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