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Before you ask me why?

📑 Note: This song talks about feelings.

Of the convicted. Expected.

And was thrown guilty... without

Who's really trying to understand

Many times, the word "Why?"

Was not asked to hear the answer.

But was asked to reiterate that... we are not good enough in

Someone's eyes

This song is therefore the voice of someone who used to be quiet.

Used to try to explain myself

Until one day began to understand

Not everyone will listen to us already.

"Before you ask me why?"

So it's not the only song of anger.

But it is to question back sore.

That actually... the whole problem starts with

Who exactly?

And sometimes

The quietest one.

Probably the one who hurt the most. 🖤

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... Read moreการฟังเพลงที่มีความหมายลึกซึ้งอย่าง "ก่อนจะถามฉันว่าทำไม?" ทำให้ผมได้สะท้อนความจริงบางอย่างในชีวิตประจำวันที่เรามักจะเจอ ไม่ว่าจะเป็นการถูกตัดสินจากคนรอบข้างหรือความคาดหวังที่หนักหน่วงที่หลายคนต้องแบกรับแต่ไม่มีใครมองเห็นจริง ๆ ผมเคยรู้สึกเหมือนถูกถามคำว่า "ทำไม?" ในสถานการณ์ที่ไม่ได้ถูกถามเพื่อรับฟังคำตอบ แต่เพื่อย้ำเตือนว่าผมผิดพลาดหรือไม่ดีพอ ซึ่งเหมือนกับที่เพลงนี้พูดถึงเลยครับ มันเจ็บปวดและรู้สึกเหมือนถูกกดดันให้ต้องอธิบายตัวเองอยู่ตลอดเวลา บางครั้งการเลือกที่จะเงียบหรือไม่อธิบายกับคนที่ไม่เคยเปิดใจฟัง ถือเป็นทางเลือกที่ช่วยให้เราปกป้องความรู้สึกของตัวเองได้ดีขึ้น เพลงนี้สอนให้เราลองคิดและตั้งคำถามกลับ ว่าปัญหาที่แท้จริงเริ่มจากที่ใครและบางทีคนที่เงียบที่สุด ก็อาจเจ็บปวดและต้องการความเข้าใจมากที่สุด สำหรับใครที่กำลังรู้สึกว่าตัวเองโดนตัดสินหรือเหมือนต้องรับผิดชอบในสิ่งที่ไม่ได้ทำ การเปิดใจฟังเพลงนี้จะช่วยให้คุณรู้สึกว่าคุณไม่ได้อยู่คนเดียว และช่วยให้คุณกล้าสู้กับสถานการณ์เหล่านั้นได้มากขึ้น สุดท้ายแล้ว เพลงนี้เหมือนเป็นคำเตือนและกำลังใจให้เราหันกลับมามองตัวเองให้มากขึ้น ก่อนที่จะไปตัดสินหรือถามใครใคร่คิดที่จะถาม “ทำไม?” อยากให้ลองถามใจตัวเองก่อน ว่าคุณเข้าใจและเปิดใจพอหรือยังจริง ๆ

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