I wish he leave me alone

Living with or around someone who frequently yells and uses minor issues as an excuse to vent anger can be emotionally draining. From my experience, recognizing that the reasons they give—like a dog bed shedding or a washing machine supposedly breaking—are often not the real cause of the outburst is crucial. These excuses usually mask deeper issues or a desire to control. One powerful step towards coping is to trust your instincts. If your body tells you to seek safety or distance yourself when someone becomes aggressive, honoring that feeling is important. I've found creating physical or mental boundaries helps protect my well-being. Additionally, understanding that their behavior is not your fault can be liberating. I remind myself that emotional outbursts directed at me do not define my worth or actions. It's sometimes helpful to document these instances or talk with supportive friends or counselors who can provide perspective and advice. Finding small ways to create moments of calm and self-care, even amidst chaos, can reinforce your resilience. Whether it's stepping outside for fresh air, listening to music, or engaging in a hobby, these actions reaffirm your control over your environment and emotions. For those in similar situations, remember that acknowledging the problem and taking steps to protect yourself emotionally and physically are vital. You deserve peace and respect, and seeking help from trusted sources if the situation escalates is a sign of strength, not weakness.