It Only Took One

It’s strange how it works…

You can receive encouragement from so many places—

kind words, support, little confirmations that you’re on the right path…

and then one voice enters the room.

And somehow… that’s the one that echoes.

That’s the one that tries to rewrite everything.

I had a moment like that this week.

The second review on my book came in as one star—

no words, no explanation.

And I didn’t expect it to hit me the way it did… but it did.

Not because I thought everyone would love it—

but because of what it stirred in me.

A deeper place.

One I’ve known before.

But the very next morning… God met me there.

Not asking me to prove anything.

Not asking me to push harder.

Just this quiet reminder:

Come empty. I’ve got this.

And somehow… that changed everything.

Full article here: 🔗 https://open.substack.com/pub/cynthiascribani/p/all-it-took-was-one?r=2ahba2&utm_medium=ios

4/24 Edited to

... Read moreDealing with negative feedback, especially when it’s as stark as a one-star review without explanation, can deeply unsettle anyone putting their work or passion into the world. From personal experience, I know how potent that single voice can feel, often overshadowing the many positive affirmations we receive. It’s not just about the critique itself but how it stirs up insecurities and doubts that lie beneath the surface. What helped me reclaim my confidence when faced with similar moments was remembering that one voice does not define the whole story. Encouragement can come from different places—friends, readers, or even moments of personal reflection—and holding on to those helps balance the impact of harsh criticism. It’s also crucial to give yourself grace during these times. Rather than trying to counteract negative feedback with more effort or validation, sometimes stepping back with openness and humility allows room for healing. Much like the article’s author found a quiet inner reminder of support, I found that embracing vulnerability and acknowledging my feelings opened a path toward resilience. Faith and spiritual reflection can provide profound comfort as well. Whether it’s a practice of prayer, meditation, or quiet contemplation, seeking that inner peace helped me shift the focus from external judgment to internal strength. Finally, sharing your experiences with others who understand the creative or personal challenges can be empowering. Community support reminds us that we are not alone, and collective encouragement can nullify the sting of isolated negativity. Remember, one voice may echo loudly, but it doesn't have to dictate the entire narrative of your journey.

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