What a good person!!

'The position doesn't last long, but the legend lasts forever. '

People don't remember you... he remembers the "impact from you."

Good thing you did.

If it doesn't make his life easier,

Doesn't get him anything.

It's just "good weather passing."

But your mistake?

It's as loud as a bomb.

Because it hit his "ego."

To make him lose his face, lose his usefulness, or feel superior.

Society is not fair.

It chooses to remember what "exploits."

It's not something "you intend well."

You saved him 10 times.

He'll remember the 11th time you missed it.

You've been doing quiet all year.

He'll remember the one day you made him "grumpy."

Because humans are not driven by gratitude.

But driven by "benefit + emotion."

If you want him to remember you?

Well, it must be useful to him at all times.

Which is impossible.

So the truth to swallow is

No matter how good you are,

If one day you "don't answer him,"

You will immediately become a bad person... in his story.

The world is not cruel.

It's just "honest with the human nature."

So stop expecting the world to be fair and start "playing the game."

What you need to do is not become better... but become smarter.

1️⃣ stop doing good, hope for anyone to remember

Be good because you choose to do it, not because you want him to remember.

If you want credit, you get hurt every time it goes away.

2️⃣ "people expectations."

Don't let anyone expect you to exaggerate.

The higher he expects. The day you miss. You'll look particularly bad.

3️⃣ create an irreplaceable "value."

People will remember you when you're "gone, he's hard."

Not because you are good... but because you are necessary to him.

4️⃣ keep proof of their own goodness.

Not to show off, but to prevent the day the narrative is twisted.

5️⃣ choose a person with value.

Someone, despite how good you are,

He only remembers when you miss it anyway.

People like this don't have to invest with their hearts.

6️⃣ accept one of the rules.

"Memories are more important than truth."

You could be real good.

But if you can't communicate, you lose.

7️⃣ need to have clear boundaries.

Someone who used to benefit from you.

Be angry as soon as you "stop giving."

Don't be surprised... This is his true identity.

A brief summary of the beautiful world:

You can't control who remembers what.

But you control that.

"Who will have the right to define you?"

Don't waste time proving yourself to everyone.

Choose just someone who "appreciates without explaining much."

The rest... let him remember wrongly.

Because your life is not responsible for solving the understanding of the whole world, a waste of time. 🖤

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