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🛑Good love...There must be no word "tolerate."

Get up!

Is this a lover or a toxin? ☢️

You...Let me ask you one word, honestly, not complicated.

Is there now "real happiness" or just "comfort yourself" day by day? 🙄

Abusive Toxic Relationship

It doesn't mean he's gonna have to stick until he's bruised green.

But it includes hurting the mind with words. Toxic gouges us to lose confidence.

Control every step of our lives, or make mistakes and throw sins into us.

Until we have to sit and question ourselves, * Or are we not good enough? *

Although we didn't do anything wrong!

Stop looking for an excuse for him!

The kind that says - but good times, he's good. -

Or he did it because of love / because of jealousy..

Hello! Get up!

If true love, he must want to see us happy. Have confidence.

Not to be a lifesaver who pumps positive energy and value into us to zero. 🩸

Remember you

My girlfriend has a better life.

If dating and feeling like walking on an eggshell

I have to be suspicious. I'm afraid he'll be upset all the time.

That's not love.

That's "rehab you're in."

Come out!

Your life is worth more than anyone's emotional field.

Dating a girlfriend, not dating toxins

If already, the heart is broken every day...

Recommended to change from "patient."

It's "walk out"!

Too bad the time! 💅🔥

The word "love" is not an excuse to hurt the mind.

If he makes you lose confidence in yourself when...

Step out now!

Let it go, Toxic, to the others. 🐍❌

🚨 7 checklists: A warning sign that you're dating "toxins," not "lovers."

🔺 1.Walk on eggshell all the time 🥚 * *:

Have to be suspicious, scared.

When he'll be upset.

Doing anything is wrong until not being yourself.

🔺 2. Removed identity and cut off the outside world:

He's trying to keep you from meeting friends, family.

Or do activities that you like

Until your life is only him

🔺 3. Speak impaired and lose confidence.:

Like sarcastic

Appearance criticism

Or your ability.

To become unconfident in yourself.

🔺 4. I'm always right...You think too much (Gaslighting):

When he makes a mistake, you catch him.

He'll deflect the point. Throw the blame back.

Or speak until you come back and wonder and blame yourself

🔺 5. Mood up and down like a roller coaster:

The role will be good and heartbreaking. Buy a gift to reconcile.

But the bad part is broken. Destroyed.

Or threaten to stop you

🔺 6. Dig the past story to aggravate, never end.:

No matter how good you are, be diligent.

Make a little mistake for a moment.

He'll dig up the old wrongs of the past.

Coming up to curse again to make you look bad immediately

🔺 7. Feel alone and energy out of tubes (Drained):

Notice yourself

If during dating

You don't feel safe or comfortable.

There's stress, suffering.

And life energy decreases every day.

📌 Brief:

> Love yourself more than love the person who hurts us

Stop claiming, "He should be able to change."

Because people like this don't change

Only you will keep breaking.

Back off...

You are worthy of safe love.

And much more comfortable! 🤍✨

# ToxicRelationship # Relationship is toxic # Love yourself # AbusiveRelationship # Exhort

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... Read moreจากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัวของหลายๆ คนที่เคยพบเจอความสัมพันธ์ที่ทำให้รู้สึกไม่ปลอดภัยหรือถูกทำร้ายทั้งกายและใจ หลายครั้งที่เราตั้งคำถามกับตัวเองว่าเรายังอยู่ในความรักที่ดีจริงหรือเปล่า ความสัมพันธ์แบบ "สารพิษ" หรือ Toxic Relationship ไม่ได้หมายถึงแค่การใช้ความรุนแรงทางร่างกายเท่านั้น แต่รวมถึงความรุนแรงทางอารมณ์ที่อาจจะซ่อนเร้นอย่างค่อยเป็นค่อยไป เช่น การพูดจาดูถูกเหยียดหยาม การคอยควบคุมชีวิต หรือการใช้เทคนิค Gaslighting ที่ทำให้เราสงสัยในความคิดและความรู้สึกตัวเอง สัญญาณเตือนสำคัญๆ ที่ผู้เขียนรวบรวมไว้ในบทความนั้นตรงมาก เช่น ต้องเดินบนเปลือกไข่ คอยระแวงอารมณ์ของคู่รัก หรือถูกลบล้างตัวตนและถูกตัดขาดจากวงสังคมที่เคยสนิทสนม ถือเป็นสัญญาณว่าความสัมพันธ์นี้ไม่ใช่ความรักที่ส่งเสริมให้เติบโต แต่เป็นสิ่งที่ดูดพลังชีวิตออกจากเรา ถ้าได้สังเกตตัวเองและรู้สึกว่าอยู่ในสถานการณ์แบบนี้ คำแนะนำที่ดีที่สุดคืออย่าอดทนจนจมปลักอยู่ในความสัมพันธ์ที่ทำร้ายตัวเอง แม้จะมีความรู้สึกผูกพันก็ต้องจำไว้เสมอว่า "รักตัวเองมาก่อน" และอยู่กับคนที่ทำให้เรามีความสุขและมั่นใจ ไม่ใช่คนที่ทำให้เรารู้สึกแย่ นอกจากนี้ การขอคำปรึกษาจากผู้เชี่ยวชาญหรือพูดคุยกับคนใกล้ตัวก็เป็นวิธีที่ช่วยให้เราได้แรงใจและเห็นทางออกเพื่อก้าวข้ามช่วงเวลาที่ยากลำบากไปได้อย่างปลอดภัย สุดท้าย อยากบอกว่า "การเดินออกมา" จากความสัมพันธ์แบบสารพิษไม่ใช่ความอ่อนแอ แต่เป็นการรักตัวเองและให้ความสำคัญกับชีวิตมากพอที่จะเดินต่อไปอย่างมีคุณค่าและมีความสุขในอนาคต

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