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What to do if your partner works a lot!

This is me in most relationships 🥲 I work a lot and have big goals which was an issue in my last relationship. I’m trying to learn what I can do differently next time so my partner still feels connected!

Would love to know if you or your partner is in this boat?🥹

#lemon8partner #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #relationshipchallenge #datingadvice101

2024/12/18 Edited to

Maintaining a healthy relationship when one partner works a lot can be challenging but manageable with the right approach. Open communication is key; both partners should express their needs and expectations. Schedule quality time together, even if it's just short moments, to reconnect. Set boundaries around work hours, and encourage your partner to take breaks to bond during leisure time. Engaging in shared activities can enhance closeness and remind both partners of their commitment. Explore activities both enjoy, whether it's cooking dinner together or leisurely weekend outings. Moreover, support your partner's ambitions while making efforts to nurture your emotional connection. It's essential for both individuals to feel important within the relationship. Utilizing technology can help; send thoughtful texts or quick calls during the day to remind them that you care. If conflicts arise regarding work-life balance, approach them positively, focusing on solutions rather than blame. Ultimately, a relationship thrives on mutual respect and understanding, regardless of one’s workload.

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You build an empire with him. Pick a niche. 😍 no but seriously. My husband pull me out of my job and said “lets build something together” I know that can’t be the case for a lot of people but if you’re working hard your only option is a supportive partner or no partner at all. Also look into his love languages.

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