How many times did i say “I miss”? Also forgive me for the audio, i forgot to turn on my mic!

It’s been almost 2 years since I left South Africa, and making this video felt like a warm hug 🫶🏾 There are just some things that hit different back home — the snacks, the people, the music, the vibes 🇿🇦✨

I know some of you might not relate if you’re not South African, but that’s okay — consider this your mini tour of what makes Mzansi special!

If you are South African and currently abroad, this one’s for you too. Let’s cry about NikNaks and Spur milkshakes together 😭💛

👇🏾Let’s chat in the comments:

🇿🇦 If you’re South African, what’s something you miss the most or love most about SA?

🌍 If you’re not South African, which one of the things I mentioned sounds the most fun (or tasty) to you?

SA will always have my heart, but I’m so grateful to be living in NYC too 🤍

#ThingsIMiss #SouthAfricanAbroad #ProudlySouthAfrican #MzansiToTheWorld #ZAToNYC #HomesickButHappy #SouthAfricaLove #DiasporaVibes #AfricanGirlInNYC #LifeAbroad #NewYork #nyc #exchangestudent

2025/7/26 Edited to

... Read moreLiving abroad often brings a profound sense of nostalgia and longing for the familiar comforts and unique cultural elements of one's homeland. For South Africans living outside their country, this can range from missing specific local snacks like NikNaks and Spur milkshakes to cherishing family gatherings, community bonds, and the distinct rhythms of South African life. The emotional connection to South African culture is deeply rooted in shared experiences such as weddings and funerals, as well as everyday moments like waking up to R&B music and the evocative smell of firewood. Traditional radio stations like Ligwalagwala FM, UKhozi FM, and television channels like SABC1 play a significant role in keeping the cultural connection alive despite the distance. Food plays a vital role in maintaining this emotional link. Iconic South African delicacies like biltong continue to be missed dearly by those overseas. Likewise, popular retailers such as Woolworths, SPAR, and their bakeries represent not just shopping destinations but portals to the tastes and textures of home. Furthermore, the community spirit characteristic of South Africa—the warmth, kinship, and mutual support—remains a strong pillar of identity and comfort for expatriates. Family remains central to these emotions, from siblings and cousins to grandmothers, all forming the fabric of cherished memories. Living in dynamic cities like New York does bring new opportunities and experiences, yet the longing for Mzansi’s distinct music, food, and cultural pulse remains poignant. Recognizing these feelings allows South Africans abroad to embrace their dual identities and find ways to celebrate both cultures. Online communities and hashtags such as #SouthAfricanAbroad and #MzansiToTheWorld foster a shared space where nostalgia is honored and the love for South Africa endures, no matter where life takes them.

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