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4 S A caring relationship. Pleasure.

"4 S relationships that take care of happiness."

When it comes to Relationship,

Each person will expect a relationship pattern.

Go in a happy way.

But many times

Often comes out the opposite way.

Don't trust, slander.

Get it wrong. Use pricks to hurt.

Understanding the 4 S

Will help remind awareness.

To help create a long-lasting wave of happiness.

And not a Toxic Relationship coming up.

S1 = Safe

S2 = Seen

S3 = Soothed

S4 = Secure

S1 = Safe is a safe space.

Listen deeply. No rush, judge.

And listen to Iceberg's floor.

To know what the interlocutor really needs.

...........................................

S2 = Seen is real vision.

Not flattering, looking through, but seeing.

The depth of the other side of the conversation

And accept his identity.

Embrace, care, love who he is.

...............................

S3 = Soothed is soothing.

In a time of vulnerability, sensitivity.

We feel close to peace of mind.

And deliver the power, the power, the word, the substitute.

Let the interlocutors recognize this importance.

............................................

S4 = Secure is stability, appreciation.

Always the end. There's a stand. There's power.

And open up space to learn each other.

Until the Vibe mental state is lifted.

Understand the Dark Side angle towards each other.

No relegation, disgust, standby, estranged.

But pay attention to the Iceberg inside.

Develop Self - Love with Common Value

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... Read moreการนำหลัก 4 S มาใช้ในชีวิตความสัมพันธ์ทำให้ผมเห็นความแตกต่างอย่างชัดเจนระหว่างความสัมพันธ์ที่สร้างสรรค์และความสัมพันธ์ที่มีปัญหา เมื่อเราเริ่มต้นด้วยความปลอดภัย (Safe) โดยการเปิดใจรับฟังอย่างลึกซึ้งและไม่ตัดสินคู่สนทนา เราจะช่วยสร้างบรรยากาศที่ทุกฝ่ายรู้สึกว่าเป็นพื้นที่ปลอดภัยสำหรับการแสดงออกความรู้สึกจริงๆ ที่ซ่อนอยู่ใต้พื้นผิวเหมือนไอซ์เบิร์ก ซึ่งช่วยลดความตึงเครียดและความไม่ไว้วางใจ นอกจากนี้ การเห็นกันอย่างแท้จริง (Seen) โดยไม่ผ่านเลยอย่างฉาบฉวยแต่ให้ความสนใจและยอมรับตัวตนที่แท้จริงของกันและกัน ช่วยให้ความสัมพันธ์ไม่แห้งแล้งและไร้ความหมาย การโอบกอดและใส่ใจในสิ่งที่คู่สนทนาเป็น สร้างความอบอุ่นและความผูกพันลึกซึ้งยิ่งขึ้น เมื่อเกิดช่วงเวลาที่ฝ่ายใดฝ่ายหนึ่งรู้สึกเปราะบางหรืออ่อนแอ การปลอบประโลมกัน (Soothed) ด้วยใจที่ใกล้เคียง ส่งมอบคำพูดและกำลังใจที่แสดงถึงความห่วงใย จะช่วยเติมพลังใจและทำให้ความสัมพันธ์มั่นคงขึ้น สุดท้าย ความมั่นคงและความซาบซึ้ง (Secure) ที่เสมอต้นเสมอปลายจะเป็นกุญแจสำคัญที่ทำให้ความสัมพันธ์เติบโตต่อไปได้อย่างยั่งยืน ไม่ว่าจะเจอด้านมืดหรือความขัดแย้งใด ๆ ก็ไม่ผลักไสหรือรังเกียจ แต่เลือกที่จะใส่ใจและพัฒนารักตัวเองและกันอย่างมีคุณค่า จากประสบการณ์ตรง การนำ 4 S มาใช้ไม่เพียงแต่ทำให้ความสัมพันธ์กับคนรอบข้างดีขึ้น แต่มันยังเริ่มจากการดูแลตัวเองให้ครบ 4 S ก่อน ซึ่งสะท้อนให้เห็นว่าเมื่อเรามีพลังและความพร้อมภายใน เราจะสามารถดูแลและมอบสิ่งดี ๆ ให้กับคนอื่น ๆ ได้อย่างมั่นคงและต่อเนื่องจริง ๆ

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