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The colleague gave our client our personal number without telling us. Are you angry?

"A colleague gives us a personal number without telling us. Let the customer come and ask us directly."

Would you be angry????🔥 😤

🗯️ Many people's first feeling is

"It's not about numbers... but it's about us not being asked."

❣️ try to look like he understands us.

The person who gave me the number was not "bad."

* * Hurry up and think, "Work to walk."

* * Get used to not having their own boundaries.

* * There is a belief that work is more important than feelings.

So I accidentally decided on behalf of someone else without knowing that I was crossing the boundary. ❣️

❤️‍🔥 What about angry people? Is it wrong? It's actually "no."

It's a heartfelt signal, a self-protective mechanism, that "our personal space is touched without our permission." ❤️‍🔥

Many people think that setting boundaries = a lot?

If we shout, cut, or irony, that could be called a wall.

But if we speak clearly, politely and offer a solution,

"Next time you give me your number, let me know.

We still want to separate work numbers and personal matters. "

‼️ This is called Healthy Boundary. ‼️

You can understand him... but you don't have to neglect yourself.

Because of good work

Should not make anyone uncomfortable quietly

💬 What about you? ❔

If you encounter a situation like this

Are you gonna be angry? How'd you handle it?

Let's share the view. ❤️🤍🤎

# Develop yourself # Psychology # Life lessons # Mind health # 40 plus likes reviews

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