Life After Loss (& how I’m trying to cope)

no one knows how they’ll react when they lose someone close to them. i’m truly had no idea what to do with myself when my mama passed away last month.

i’ve been trying my very best to stay busy but also allow myself to feel my feelings fully.

every single day has been up and down for me and it’s been so difficult but i can feel my mama’s energy and love still flowing.

i’m not sure what my next steps are or how i’ll feel tomorrow or the next day or next week or month. moment by moment, day by day.

i’ll miss her forever.

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coping skills i’ve been using:

~ coloring

~ journaling

~ cleaning

~ walking the dog

~ going to the nature reserve

~ spending time with friends and family

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#lemon8dairy #griefjourney #livingthroughgrief #embracevulnerability #unfiltered

2025/7/14 Edited to

... Read moreGrief is an intensely personal experience, and there is no "right way" to grieve or timeline to follow. It is important to acknowledge both the good and bad feelings that arise after losing someone close. Experts recommend allowing yourself to fully experience your emotions—whether it’s anger, sadness, or confusion—because suppressing feelings can hinder healing. Engaging in activities like journaling helps process complex thoughts and emotions, offering clarity and comfort. Coloring and other creative outlets provide a peaceful focus, helping calm a distressed mind. Physical movement, such as walking the dog or visiting nature reserves, not only supports physical health but also fosters mental well-being by reconnecting with the environment. Social support plays a crucial role during grief. Spending meaningful time with friends and family allows for shared comfort and reminds us we are not alone. Additionally, reconnecting with your spirituality, prayer, or meditation can be a source of solace and strength. The OCR image content reinforces these points by encouraging reconnection with yourself and validation of all emotions, including crying, screaming, praying, or journaling. It reminds us grief is "so yes," meaning very real and valid, urging individuals to hold onto what helps them survive emotionally. Remember, grief unfolds moment by moment, day by day, with ups and downs. Compassion toward yourself and the patience to accept each phase of loss are key to healing. This period is often unpredictable but staying mindful and engaging in gentle coping skills can gradually lead to acceptance, peace, and continued connection with the love that persists beyond loss.

2 comments

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Nena Rodriquez

I can relate hun. I lost my mama last year. I don't have family left. I will be honest. Im still grieving, and it feels like a huge shock. The worst part was feeling abandoned by everyone when I had to handle her affairs.

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Malikah Glover1

🥰❤️