How do i stop caring what people think about me?

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Ever since i was a kid i always been a what will people say person, so i been good all my life ,perfect grades have never been in drama or fights or anything like that, but i have never fully lived the life i wanted because of being a people pleaser like i care too much of what will they say about me if i do anything wild, i have tried to be rebellious even for just a day but im always stuck on what will people say. How do you deal with it and what’s your opinion and advice on it.

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... Read moreLearning to stop caring about what others think can be a transformative journey. It's common to feel constrained by the opinions of others, leading to a life driven by fear rather than authenticity. One effective approach is to recognize and challenge negative thoughts. When feelings of anxiety arise over others' perceptions, pause and assess the truth behind these beliefs. Are they based on reality or assumptions? Additionally, practicing mindfulness can help you remain centered and less affected by external opinions. Engaging in activities that inspire joy and foster creativity can redirect focus inward, strengthening your sense of self-worth. Surround yourself with supportive individuals who respect your choices and encourage your independence. It's also useful to set boundaries and learn to say no. This assertiveness reinforces your right to prioritize your own feelings and pursuits over societal expectations. Remember, everyone has their own insecurities, and often, people are far too busy with their lives to scrutinize yours. Embracing vulnerability and accepting that it’s okay to be imperfect can lead to genuine connections with others, as authenticity tends to attract like-minded individuals. Ultimately, the journey to not caring what people think of you is about reclaiming your narrative, asserting your values, and courageously living the life you desire.

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Monserrat

social media is kind of pressuring this. but we are all different.

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Kelli R Hatch

We sometimes do this because we are people pleasers or at least some of us are

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