my icks as a girl mom

1.) “they’re going to be trouble”- thanks but i don’t think so.

2.) “they spend too much time with you”/“you need to let them around other people”- oh ok. are you going to pay for daycare?

3.) “wow you guys were really busy”- yes they’re close in age, but we PLANNED that.

4.) touching/reaching out to hold my kids without asking- excuse me? yeah..no

5.) the judgement of only breastfeeding my girls- my first we stopped at 10mo but i rarely gave bottles during. my second wont take a bottle, so sorry🤷🏽‍♀️ no babysitters and my 1st wont go anywhere without me

the list is literally never ending.

2025/1/27 Edited to

... Read moreBeing a girl mom comes with its own set of unique challenges and societal pressures. Many parents feel the weight of judgmental comments regarding their parenting styles. For instance, remarks like “they’re going to be trouble” or “you need to let them around other people” can be frustrating, as they often come from those who do not understand the intricacies of child-rearing. It’s common for mothers to plan their family dynamics thoughtfully, yet still face criticism. Furthermore, the choices surrounding breastfeeding can evoke scrutiny, particularly in a society that often emphasizes different parenting methods. Not every child will adapt to bottle feeding, and that’s perfectly okay. Each family has its own rhythm and preferences that should be respected. Ultimately, navigating parenting as a girl mom involves not only dealing with children’s needs but also managing external perceptions and expectations. It emphasizes the importance of building a supportive community where moms can share their experiences without judgment. This sense of solidarity can empower women, allowing them to embrace their unique parenting journeys with confidence and pride.

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