First trimester 🌸

Reflecting on the first trimester is truly eye-opening. It’s amazing how much can happen in just those early weeks — from discovering unexpected pregnancy despite birth control to experiencing the full range of symptoms that come with growing a new life inside you. One thing I learned is just how common it is for an IUD to fall out without noticing, which can really take you by surprise when you find out you’re pregnant. Also, the typical notion of 'morning sickness' doesn’t do justice to what most expectant moms face. It’s more like all-day sickness with waves of nausea that can come and go unpredictably, but managing it with small meals and plenty of hydration helps. Cravings also hit hard, and I've found that odd combinations, like anything with pickles, become irresistible during this time. Medical checkups and ultrasounds are moments of reassurance—getting that early confirmation that the pregnancy is healthy is a huge relief, especially with concerns like ectopic pregnancy or complications from birth control methods. An ER visit due to cramping can be scary but shows how important it is to listen to your body and seek care when something feels off. Announcing the pregnancy on social media around 10 weeks felt like sharing a huge milestone with loved ones and helped mark the start of this incredible journey. Bloodwork revealing a baby girl was another unexpected joy, making the pregnancy feel even more real. Perhaps the biggest takeaway is embracing that pregnancy doesn’t always go as planned, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t wonderful. Feeling unlike yourself is normal—your body is doing something miraculous. This first trimester has taught me resilience, patience, and the joy of welcoming change, even when it’s unexpected.