The thing that hurts us the most in love is not that someone doesn't choose us, but that we...

What hurts us the most in love

It's not that someone doesn't choose us.

But it is that we leave ourselves...

For someone to choose us.

Many people spend their whole lives

Try to be a better person.

Better than this.

More beautiful than this

More understanding.

More forgiving.

Because deep down, believe that

"If I'm good enough,

He will love me. "

But the painful truth is,

No matter how much you change yourself,

You can't force anyone to love you.

And the more you run after love,

The more reflection that inside still believes

"I'm not enough."

"I'm not worthy yet."

"I have to do something.

To be loved. "

Both true love

Never had to be exchanged by proving yourself.

Many people are not looking for the "right person."

But looking for

Someone who will make you feel valuable.

And that's why we're often attracted to the same relationships.

Come in over and over again.

Because the universe doesn't send people in.

According to what we want.

But send it in.

According to what we haven't healed,

Some people come in.

To let us see the wounds, the abandonment.

Some people come in.

To let us see the fear of rejection.

Some people come in.

So that we can see

We are trying to exchange love.

By losing yourself?

And the day you stopped running,

Stop chasing.

Stop trying to control who stays or goes.

Stop taking your own values.

To leave in the eyes of others

Something will change.

You'll start to be happy.

Even no one

You'll start to feel full.

Even no relationship yet.

You'll start to love yourself.

Without waiting for anyone to love first

And strangely...

When that day comes,

Yes love

Often walk in by yourself

It's not because you're attracted.

But because you've stopped running away from yourself,

Because in the end,

The greatest love

It's not for someone to choose you.

But is your date

"Choose yourself."

Without feeling guilty anymore.

If you're tired of a relationship today,

Waiting for someone to change

Or trying to prove yourself to be loved.

Maybe...

This could be the time you stopped running after love.

And then turned around.

Hug my heart

Again.

✨ Because the first person who should always choose you

Is "yourself."

😍

With love from the heart

Wicker teacher

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