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Sometimes... letting go of your hands doesn't mean you're out of love.

Sometimes... letting go of your hands doesn't mean you're out of love.

But that means

We stopped throwing our own hands.

To hold someone else back.

Many people take a very long time.

Stay with the question that

"Does he love us?"

"Will he come back?"

"Do we have to do anything else?"

"Are we not good enough?"

And the more love

The more you try to understand him,

Try to look at him

Trying to forgive.

Try to wait

Try to be patient.

Trying to understand

Until one day...

Forgot to ask myself

"What about me?"

How do I feel?

Am I tired?

What do I want?

And am I in love with myself?

One painful truth is,

A lot of people aren't suffering.

Because not being loved.

But suffering because of his own worth

Go leave it in someone's hand.

If he chooses us

We feel precious.

If he's quiet,

We don't feel good enough.

If he changes,

We feel like we've lost ourselves.

In fact,

Our values

It never depends on anyone's decision.

Spiritual growth

Not to stop loving anyone

But to stop waiting for someone to fulfill what we need to fill ourselves.

Stop taking responsibility for other people's life lessons.

Stop carrying the emotional burden instead of others.

Stop thinking that if we love enough

We'll help him.

Because some routes

He has to walk by himself.

Some lessons.

He has to study by himself.

And some wounds.

He must heal himself.

At some point,

The question will change.

From

"Will he choose me?"

Become

"Am I choosing myself?"

From

"Will I lose him?"

Become

"I will never lose myself again."

From

"How does he feel?"

Become

"How do I feel?"

And that's the day all the energy

Flow home.

Back to my own heart.

♥️

True love

Never asked us to run after

Never asked us to prove our own worth.

And never ask us to give up our own identity in exchange for being loved.

Because on the day we truly know our own worth,

We didn't stop loving anyone.

We just stop loving other people.

More than loving yourself.

And that was probably the beginning of the most gorgeous love.

It's not the love we get from anyone.

But it's the love we give ourselves.

😍

With love from the heart

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