Does he like me back? Or are we just friends?

UGHHHH, guys, I’m so confused!!!! Like, I’ve known him since we’ve been, like, 4!! We’ve been also getting a LOT of attention because people have been thinking that we would be a great couple! Not only from our class, but other people from other classes too!

Please, please, PLEASE answer this! I need y’all opinions!

Does he like me back or am I just delusional?

2025/10/18 Edited to

... Read moreWhen trying to understand if someone likes you back or if you're just close friends, it's important to pay attention to specific signs that go beyond normal friendship. For example, talking every day indicates strong interest and comfort around each other. If he doesn't hesitate to share things with you and you can be yourselves without judgment, this suggests a deeper bond. Physical signs such as frequent hugs or protective behavior, like looking out for you or defending you in social situations, are often seen in people with romantic feelings. Trust is another vital factor. If you can tell him anything and he keeps your confidence, it shows respect and emotional closeness. Also, playful teasing or jokes about hypothetically being a couple can hint at mutual feelings, especially if they don't make either of you uncomfortable. However, it’s crucial to consider that some people simply have affectionate and close friendships, so these signs alone aren't definitive proof of romantic interest. In your case, since you’ve known each other since childhood and many people think you’d be a great couple, it might be time to have an open and honest conversation with him about your feelings. This removes guesswork and can strengthen your relationship, whether it remains a close friendship or evolves into something more. Remember, mutual respect and clear communication are key in understanding where you both stand.

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Oooo these are def signs. There is a small chance that yall are just besties but VERY SMALL. I swear he likes you😭. Also if you make a move, keep us updated! I’m now fully invested🥹

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