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30 + to admit that you are good too.

Is anyone the same?

Throughout life from study to work

No matter how good you do, you will always like to object that

"We're not good yet."

The more people see on social

I feel so small. 😭

But today, at 30 +, looking back,

To understand that...

Each day, at any age,

That we continue to improve ourselves all the time.

No, stop learning.

Bring yourself to grow. Live in a capitalist society.

With a job and money to save.

Take responsibility for your life, take care of your family.

"We're very good."

This post, we want to tell all our friends.

Not just people aged 30

But it's everyone who's getting tired.

Or wondering about yourself

I want to say that...

"You're very good."

Getting yourself through this chaotic adult world has not been easy.

Hold yourself tightly and watch yourself often.

Because the people who are by our side in every crisis

It's ourselves. 🫶🏼✨

What moments do friends in their 30s feel like

"Well, we're good too." Or lately, anyone who is tired wants to stop by to comment and talk to each other. 👇🏼💬

# mindset # Heal heart # lemon 8 diary

# Lemon 8 invites# Before having today

5/21 Edited to

... Read moreในช่วงวัย 30+ ผมเองได้เรียนรู้ว่าการยอมรับความเก่งเกินกว่าที่เราคาดหวังไว้ เป็นเรื่องที่สำคัญมาก การที่แต่ละวันเรายังคงเดินหน้าพัฒนาตัวเอง ลุกขึ้นสู้กับความท้าทายของชีวิต ทั้งการทำงาน การดูแลครอบครัว และสร้างฐานะทางการเงิน มันคือความสำเร็จที่ยิ่งใหญ่กว่าที่เราคิดเสมอ ผมจำได้ว่าตอนแรก ผมมักจะเอา "ไม้บรรทัด" ที่คนอื่นตั้งขึ้นมา มาวัดตัวเอง เช่น ต้องมีตำแหน่งงานที่สูง หรือเงินเดือนมากมาย ถึงจะเรียกว่า "เก่ง" แต่พอได้มาทบทวนดูระยะทางที่ได้เดินผ่านมา พบว่าแค่การทำงานเต็มที่และดูแลชีวิตประจำวันได้ดี คือความเก่งในรูปแบบของตัวเอง อีกทั้งการยินดีกับความสำเร็จเล็กๆ อย่างการเคลียร์งานสำเร็จ หรือทำอาหารอร่อย ๆ ก็เป็นจุดเติมกำลังใจที่ไม่ควรมองข้าม การเป็นผู้ใหญ่ในโลกที่เต็มไปด้วยความวุ่นวายและการแข่งขันไม่ใช่เรื่องง่าย การรู้จักกอดตัวเอง ส่งเสียงชมตัวเอง เล็กๆ น้อยๆ ช่วยให้เรามีกำลังใจยังไงล่ะครับ ไม่ต้องเปรียบเทียบตัวเองกับคนอื่นบนโซเชียลมากเกินไป เพราะความเก่งของแต่ละคนแตกต่างกันและมีหลากหลายรูปแบบ ถ้าวันไหนเหนื่อยหรือรู้สึกท้อ แค่ให้รู้ว่ายังมีตัวเราเองที่เป็นเพื่อนแท้และสนับสนุนเราอยู่เสมอ และถ้าใครมีโมเมนต์ที่รู้สึกว่า "เราก็เก่งเหมือนกัน" หรืออยากมาแชร์เรื่องราว ช่วงเวลาที่ภูมิใจในตัวเอง มาพูดคุยกันได้เลยครับ เพราะทุกเรื่องราวล้วนมีคุณค่าที่ควรได้รับการเฉลิมฉลอง

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