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Find a borrowed book to read Ep.3

- Let me do what I want to do in this one and unpredictable life - from "The let them theory."

Written by you, Mel robbins.

Translated by you. Good history.

There are many parts that are very interesting: relationships, living, expressing opinions and, importantly, revisiting ourselves. Letting go in this book does not mean letting go or ignoring. It is letting him be him and us are us, but also maintaining the balance that will allow us to maintain the relationship and returning time / energy on our part, which is the part that we can control. That is, whether it is our happiness, our values, our dreams, what we want to be, what we want to do, only we have to allow ourselves to do it, because we cannot control other people's thoughts, behavior. Which at times, or most of us, can't control all our thoughts at all.

❤️ our time and energy matter.

❤️ live our lives the way we would be proud of ourselves.

❤️ true love is our own, so happiness, value, dreams, what you want to be, want to do, only we have to allow ourselves.

❤️ adapt comparisons as inspiration and action.

❤️ change relies on consistent action, and sometimes it's hard.

❤️ we can't control other people's thoughts or actions.

❤️ do we love him that he is now? Or love the past. Or that we wish he was? He won't change (he will change when he wants to change).

❤️ we deserve something good.

So let them and let me too.

# Develop yourself # Love yourself # Book review # Books to read # The heart book

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