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As a single mother, it means that we have passed through the trough of suffering until our hearts enter peace. We do not stick to and judge from the past what we have felt anymore. There is no question of whether we ever loved. How good it was. Only go forward. Back 3 years before having a baby, everything was not in the way of the first place. A total of 5 years, longer days, more tired and unhappy. We do not want to have him in life. We have not changed. We have just grown up. The more perspectives may have children. Children have revolved around us. Children are what we are always dedicated to. The point of change in retrospect no matter the problem. Small or large must be the one to fix it until it is tired, it is tired. What follows is the feeling of indifference to the relationship with this person. The person who keeps quiet uses silence until we are almost crazy. No matter what the money is, we sometimes lose the car. The person who has to take to the garage is us. The child is sick, we. Anything, we. Here you may think that we do not work, have no income, or are housewives.# No, we have incomeWe have a small dessert cafe made like Delivery Tech Home. We open very early and close very late.

And we take care of the children for 24 hours, with the grandparents of the children who are free from work to help see the grandchildren. With no less income, we start to expand the share of regular collections, insurance collections, and invest in shares. Okay, what's the problem here?

The problem is that the idea does not go the same way. The stability that we want to build, but the other person does not accept, is not a good mentor as before. In the past, he was very good for us, planning to fix for us. But now with having a family, having children, it is like he can't solve anything like he runs against the wall until he hurts. In the end, he can't bear to be like that. Oh, when agreed, he wants us to stay at home, raise children, will be a caregiver. But in the end, he left his full job to do what he likes. In the end, he lacks stability from income, is not uncertain, pressured and forced to like himself to run against the wall. So we happened, we still give paternity rights to the delivery of children according to the reason, the agreement engraved quickly after the divorce. Without us asking for more, even if we can do it, no matter. This story can teach a lot of things to someone who thinks of having a family, having children. If we change back, it would be more conscious to review someone that he is really ready to be a father and husband. Does he really have anything to do first? Because when having a family, having children, will think of wanting to do something at that time, then forget the family, forget that what is in front of it is more important, it will end like this.

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