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College loneliness

Hi,

I just wanted to come on here and be transparent. I go to a huge school over 30,000+ and I feel lonelier than ever.. I really expected college to be so much different, it’s really nothing like the movies. Has anyone felt this way and been able to combat this feeling? I really want to meet my people and have fun but it actually so hard as communication can fall apart and fear of judgement. As a current sophomore I feel like everyone has their cliques so I fear I may be too late to find my people 🥲. HELP…

#collegestudents #collegeadvice #blackgirlcreator

#lemon8college #unflitered

2024/11/11 Edited to

College can be an overwhelming experience, especially when faced with feelings of loneliness. Many students arrive expecting a vibrant, social atmosphere, only to find themselves struggling to connect with others. If you're dealing with loneliness, know that you're not alone in this journey. To combat these feelings, consider joining clubs or organizations that align with your interests. Whether it’s academic clubs, sport teams, or social groups, these can serve as excellent spaces to meet like-minded individuals who share your passions. Additionally, participating in campus events, volunteering, or even attending social gatherings can help bridge the gap and foster new friendships. Remember, building connections takes time and effort, but the rewards are well worth it. Be open to stepping outside of your comfort zone and initiating conversations with new people. You might be surprised to find others who are also looking for connection. Furthermore, don’t hesitate to seek support from campus resources. Many universities provide counseling services or peer support programs to help students navigate these feelings. Talking to someone who understands can be incredibly beneficial in finding coping strategies and enhancing your college experience. In summary, while college loneliness can feel isolating, proactive steps can help create connections and foster community. Embrace the journey of finding your tribe and know that it’s never too late to make meaningful friendships.

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I 100% relate, college is a simulation, it definitely feels like it.. right? Lol… however I’m here for my degree, money and skills! People will come! With time 😎

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