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💛 it's okay to be a lil selfish for you💛

sometimes I have to remind myself also I always feel bad about it but now days I realize it's okay to be a little bit selfish for my own peace it's okay to set boundaries too anyone such as

-family

-friends

-spouse

-other etc

and what I want is a "peaceful life" if I have to cut out toxic relatives an such I will because I delt with too much putting there feelings before mine... so from now on it's okay to be a little selfish to put Me/yourself first ;) 💯💯.

#life #peace #Lemon8 #lemon8diary

2025/5/9 Edited to

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