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Mental health, new mothers # finalEP. Because family is the same team.

First of all, I'm sorry that the admin has disappeared for many days.

Since the main task is very tight, let's go to the final EP of new mom mental health.

A hopeful question like "Can I help you?"..

It may unknowingly make the mother after birth more "tired" than before.

Let's share the Supports Guide. Understand the mother's chest!

"You can't stop crying...Can I help you? "

"The house is so messy...Is there anything you can do? "

For you, Dad...The word of questioning is good hope and really want to help lighten. Admin understands.

But for a mother who hasn't slept for three nights, the hormones are swinging and her left hand is carrying her baby in her breast...

Having to "think" and "order" what your husband is doing adds to the heavy "Mental Load"!

Let's compare life after birth like "walking through a rainstorm."

A mother is trying to hold her baby and hold a small umbrella.

What she wanted most was not a person who shouted in the rain, "Can you hold anything?"

But the person who.."Walk in, spread a big umbrella, cover the rain, and take something from your hand and hold it yourself" without waiting for orders.

(Scroll through the illustration to see 3 iron rules where you can turn yourself into a "big umbrella" for you immediately.)

To your father and the support team:

Raising is not the only instinct of motherhood, but "Teamwork."

✅ saw the bottle...Wash now

✅ I didn't eat...Buy something delicious to enter.

✅ saw my shabby mother...Take the baby and carry it and go to sleep!

You don't have to be the perfect father.

Just being a "proactive" father.

It's already helped pull your mother out of the prenatal depression storm (PPD).

Mom, which one's finished reading?..Don't forget to click Share or "Tag Your Husband" to read this manual smoothly.

Together, Admin would like to encourage all families.

# Psychological world # Psychologist # Psychology comics # Mental health, mom # Postpartum depression

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... Read moreการเป็นคุณแม่มือใหม่นั้นถือเป็นช่วงเวลาท้าท้ายและเปลี่ยนแปลงในชีวิตอย่างมาก ไม่ใช่แค่เพียงการปรับตัวกับภาระการดูแลลูกน้อยเท่านั้น แต่ยังรวมถึงการดูแลสุขภาพจิตของตัวเองด้วย ในประสบการณ์ส่วนตัวของแม่ใหม่หลายคน การได้รับการสนับสนุนอย่างจริงจังจากคู่ชีวิตหรือคนในครอบครัวเป็นสิ่งที่ช่วยให้ผ่านช่วงเวลายากลำบากนั้นไปได้ง่ายขึ้นมาก สิ่งที่น่าสนใจคือหลายครั้งที่คุณพ่อหรือสมาชิกในครอบครัวถามว่า “ให้ช่วยอะไรไหม?” แม้จะดูเหมือนการแสดงออกถึงความห่วงใย แต่กลับกลายเป็นสร้างภาระให้แม่ต้องคิดและจัดการแผนงานด้วยตัวเองมากขึ้น จนอาจส่งผลให้ความเหนื่อยล้าเพิ่มพูนโดยไม่รู้ตัว ดังนั้น “การลงมือทำทันทีโดยไม่ต้องรอคำสั่ง” หรือ Proactive Support จึงมีความสำคัญอย่างมาก ในฐานะผู้ที่ซัพพอร์ตแม่ใหม่ การสังเกตและหยิบยื่นความช่วยเหลือให้โดยอัตโนมัติ เช่น การล้างขวดนมหรือขยะที่เห็นอยู่ การซื้ออาหารหรือของอร่อยให้แม่เพื่อส่งเสริมโภชนาการ หรือการอุ้มลูกให้แม่ได้พักผ่อน คือการเป็น “ร่มคันใหญ่” ที่ช่วยแบ่งเบาภาระและลด Mental Load ของแม่อย่างมาก นอกจากนี้เรื่องของการรับฟังอย่างเข้าใจไม่ตัดสินและไม่รีบให้คำแนะนำทางตรรกะ ก็เป็นพื้นที่ปลอดภัยที่แม่ต้องการ เพื่อระบายอารมณ์จากพายุฮอร์โมนหลังคลอด บางครั้งเพียงแค่การถูกกอดหรือได้รับคำพูดให้กำลังใจก็ช่วยให้แม่รู้สึกดีขึ้นและผ่านช่วงเวลาที่ยากลำบากไปได้ ขอแนะนำว่าการสร้างทีมซัพพอร์ตที่มีความเข้าใจและร่วมมือกันช่วยเหลืออย่างใกล้ชิดในช่วงเวลานี้ จะส่งผลดีต่อทั้งสุขภาพกายและใจของแม่ อีกทั้งยังส่งผลให้ครอบครัวเข้มแข็งและเป็นทีมที่ช่วยกันเลี้ยงดูเด็กน้อยอย่างมีความสุข ขอเป็นกำลังใจให้ทุกครอบครัวที่เพิ่งเริ่มต้นชีวิตคุณแม่มือใหม่ และขอเชิญชวนคุณพ่อและสมาชิกในครอบครัวลงมือทำตามกฎเหล็กเพื่อช่วยสนับสนุนแม่อย่างแท้จริง

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