Don't be just anyone's bread crumbs.
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1. He doesn't answer. Don't wait.
When someone reads your message and repeatedly chooses to be quiet, not because they are too busy, but because you may not be the person they really want to communicate with, trying to talk to someone who doesn't want to talk is a little bit of self-depreciation.
2. Don't be just a temporary loneliness remedy.
Some people don't want a relationship, but just want someone to escape loneliness, not to become someone's comfort when they are free, because good love should be a bond, not a temporary remedy.
3. Tired alone. Not called love.
A relationship where you have to put yourself in, but he is not a love worth keeping. Being with someone should make you feel light, not carrying everything alone.
4. If he doesn't see you special, don't stay sorry.
Those who do not see your importance will never change you to be true in their hearts. Do not hope that patience will make anyone come back to love. Retreat on the day when your heart is left with a piece to repair.
5. Love is not a guessing game.
If you have to wait for him to answer, think, or disappear, it's not a relationship to live in, a good love.
It should calm your heart, not make you nervous every day.
6. Do not agree to be anyone's backup.
You deserve clear love. Not being hidden or kept for use on another day, no one. Don't wait for the person who gives you just an option because your life is worth more than that.
7. Silence is the answer.
Sometimes the word "no answer" is as clear as "no love." Don't try to interpret it as complicated. Because someone who really wants to talk to you will never disappear.
8. Repeated excuses, not love.
If every time you get hurt, he uses the same word "sorry."
Over and over again, know that these are people who do not want to adapt, but hope that you will continue to endure.
9. Wrong patience is self-torture.
Don't be fooled to think that love must always endure, because if it makes you lose your dignity, then he is not the person to love in the first place.
10. Don't collect scraps of time as happiness.
The person who gives you just a piece of free time and then disappears when there is something more interesting. He doesn't really love you. Don't accept that relationship.
Only valuable when he has nothing to do
11. Loneliness is not a reason to endure.
Fear of loneliness may make you agree with someone who hurts the mind.
But try to be quiet, and you will find that calm loneliness
Better still to be with someone who makes the heart not happy
12. Don't hope anyone changes for you.
If that person doesn't feel like changing, he will never really change, despite the effort you make, lasting change.
Let's start with him wanting to do it for you, not because you requested it.
13. People who want to understand don't have to explain a lot.
Don't waste the power to explain identity to people who never try.
Listen, because the person who loves you will understand you even on the day you speak the least.
14. The heart that gives away must come back.
A relationship where you're a party to everything but not getting anything.
Back, it'll make you too tired in the end. Don't wait until you're exhausted to turn around.
15. A request for love. It's not love.
If you have to try every day to make him love, it's not love.
You deserve true love because they want it, not because you're trying so hard.
16. Don't be fooled to believe you're not good enough.
Some people make you feel bad about yourself so that you are in a position of control. Don't let anyone erase you because people
That, yes, will make you feel good enough every day.
17. Do not wrap pain in the word love.
Good love shouldn't cause you tears every night. If it hurts you repeatedly, it's time to ask yourself if this is true love or just thinking about it.
18. If he never intended, don't wait for him to come back.
Leaving someone without explaining anything means he doesn't appreciate keeping you. Don't wait for someone who never chose you once.
# Don't be anyone's bread crumbs
จากประสบการณ์ตรงของผมเอง การรักตัวเองคือกุญแจสำคัญที่จะช่วยให้ไม่ยอมตกเป็นเศษขนมปังในสายตาคนอื่น ความรู้สึกที่ถูกมองข้าม หรือถูกใช้เป็นแค่ทางผ่านนั้นค่อนข้างเจ็บปวดมาก เพราะเรามอบใจให้เต็มที่แต่ไม่ได้รับสิ่งตอบแทนที่คู่ควร ผมเคยอยู่ในความสัมพันธ์ที่ฝ่ายตรงข้ามทำตัวเหมือนไม่สนใจ บางครั้งไม่ตอบข้อความ หรือแค่ให้ความรักในช่วงเวลาที่เขาว่าง ความรู้สึกแบบนี้ทำให้ผมเริ่มตั้งคำถามว่าเราคู่ควรกับความรักแบบนี้จริงหรือ? จนในที่สุดผมได้เรียนรู้ว่า "ความรักไม่ใช่เกมเดาใจ" และ "ความเงียบก็คือคำตอบ" ซึ่งสิ่งเหล่านี้สะท้อนชัดว่าถ้าความสัมพันธ์ไม่มีความเคารพซึ่งกันและกัน ก็ควรเริ่มทบทวนและปล่อยวาง อีกอย่างที่ผมคิดว่าเป็นเรื่องสำคัญ ก็คือ อย่าหวังให้ใครมารักหรือเปลี่ยนแปลงเพียงเพราะเราอยากให้เป็นแบบนั้น การเปลี่ยนแปลงที่ยั่งยืนเกิดขึ้นได้เมื่อเขาอยากเป็นแบบนั้นจริง ๆ ไม่ใช่เพราะเราบังคับหรือร้องขอ สุดท้ายนี้ อยากแนะนำให้ทุกคนที่กำลังเจอปัญหาแบบนี้ ลองหยุดและถามใจตัวเองว่า ความรักที่ได้รับนั้นทำให้คุณมีความสุขจริง ๆ หรือเปล่า ถ้าไม่ ลองหันมารักตัวเองก่อน แล้วคุณจะพบว่าชีวิตและความรักจะสดใสขึ้นมาก
