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Things 30 taught me

✨ What I’ve been taught and what I know does not define me. I get to choose who I am, regardless of how I was raised.

✨ Words are spells. Saying (and singing) negative things will welcome negative things into your life. Stop using words like “ugly, fat, broke, poor, etc”.

✨ Taking every mistake or “negative situation” as a lesson. Analyze what your every day life is trying to teach you about loving yourself and loving others. Life is a school, take advantage of it. ❤️

✨ Standing out from the crowd by doing what you genuinely feel called to do, instead of what others are asking you to do - is a great way to flow into your most abundant life.

#30flirtyandthriving #thirtiesandthriving #thirtyyears #iwishiknewearlier #letschat

2024/11/27 Edited to

Reaching your thirties often brings a wealth of experiences that help you grow into your best self. Many individuals reflect on their twenties and recognize vital lessons they wish they had known earlier. First, it’s important to embrace positivity; language has profound effects on your mindset and reality. Replacing negative self-talk with affirmations can dramatically shift your perspective. Additionally, learning to view mistakes as opportunities for growth is crucial. Each challenge you face can teach valuable lessons about resilience and self-acceptance. Life is indeed like a school, and those experiences cultivate wisdom. Lastly, standing out is integral to personal fulfillment. Pursuing passions rather than conforming to societal expectations leads to a more abundant and fulfilling life. Embracing your unique path can set you apart and propel you towards authentic happiness.

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i definitely agree that words are spells. only put out positive things and that will come back to you! i wish i knew this when i was younger because i was so negative and harsh

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Alexia ❄️🎀✨⭐️🧸💗

yes, every blessing sometimes have a lesson that’s a quote that I love to think about and you’re so right because I’m not 30 but this is really helpful and eye opening for me in my 20s

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