Automatically translated.View original post

Are you lazy? Or do we never know how to learn?

Some kids aren't as lazy as we thought.

He's just trying to learn in a way that doesn't match himself.

👉 when the learning system we judge him has only one form.

👉 different children... often become people

"Wrong Looking" and Simple Verdicts from Adults

It can become a belief that children have to carry their whole lives.

# Child psychology # Kids # Baby # Lazy # Raising children

5/1 Edited to

... Read moreจากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัวของผู้ปกครองหลายคน รวมถึงตัวฉันเอง การตีตราเด็กว่า "ขี้เกียจ" มักเกิดจากความเข้าใจที่จำกัดเกี่ยวกับรูปแบบการเรียนรู้ของเด็กแต่ละคน ฉันเคยพบว่าลูกของฉันไม่ได้เกียจคร้านเลย แต่มักมีวิธีการเรียนรู้และจดจำข้อมูลที่แตกต่างไปจากเพื่อนร่วมชั้น เช่น เขาชอบทำความเข้าใจผ่านการลงมือปฏิบัติและการทดลองมากกว่าการอ่านหนังสือเพียงอย่างเดียว การปรับเปลี่ยนวิธีการสอนและสร้างสภาพแวดล้อมที่เปิดโอกาสให้เด็กได้ค้นพบตัวเองตามที่ชอบจริง ๆ เป็นสิ่งสำคัญ เพราะเด็กที่ถูกมองผิดว่าเป็นเด็กขี้เกียจอาจจะกลายเป็นผู้มีความสามารถพิเศษในด้านอื่น ๆ ที่ไม่เหมือนใคร หรือมีความคิดสร้างสรรค์สูง จึงแนะนำให้ผู้ปกครองและครูตั้งคำถามกับตัวเองว่าเรามีความยืดหยุ่นและเปิดรับรูปแบบการเรียนรู้ที่หลากหลายหรือไม่ เช่น การใช้เกมการศึกษา การเล่าเรื่อง หรือการสอนแบบกลุ่มที่ช่วยกระตุ้นความสนใจและช่วยให้เด็กเข้าใจได้ดียิ่งขึ้น คำว่า "ขี้เกียจ" นั้นไม่ควรถูกใช้เพียงเพราะความไม่เข้าใจวิธีการเล่นหรือเรียนรู้ของเด็ก เพราะนี่อาจส่งผลกระทบต่อความเชื่อมั่นในตัวเองของเด็กและอาจบั่นทอนพัฒนาการได้ในระยะยาว ท้ายที่สุด การสนับสนุนและยอมรับความแตกต่างของเด็กคือกุญแจสำคัญที่จะช่วยให้ลูกของเราค้นพบแนวทางการเรียนรู้ที่เหมาะสม และเติบโตเป็นผู้ใหญ่ที่มั่นใจในตนเองและประสบความสำเร็จในแบบของตัวเอง

Related posts

How To Exit Your Lazy Girl Era (In 2025) 🧘🏼‍♀️🎧🎀✨
💌 Don’t forget to save this for later Follow for more like this 💖🪞🌸💫✨🫧 #healthygirl #healthygirlsummer #pilatesprincess #eveningroutine
Jasmine Hughes 🎀

Jasmine Hughes 🎀

9121 likes

A study setup featuring a tablet displaying apps, a pink drink in a clear cup, pens, and a notebook with handwritten notes. The image is overlaid with the text 'Lazy Girl COLLEGE HACKS' and 'GET A HIGH GPA WITHOUT TRYING SO HARD'.
A student in a lecture hall, seen from behind, attentively listening to a professor. Yellow arrows point from the student's head towards the professor, emphasizing focus on the lecture.
An open spiral-bound textbook with colorful tabs and highlighted sections, illustrating the concept of skimming. A yellow arrow points to a specific page.
Lazy Girl College Hacks: 9 Tips for a Higher GPA📚🎓
Yes, I know “why is Chalie posting college content?” I’m here mainly for fitness advice and everything health-related, but I’m also a lifestyle account—and a big part of my life is being a college student and let’s be real—college can be overwhelming, especially when it feels like there’s a never-e
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

7470 likes

Learn his weakness then play smarter, not harder 👏🏾
💗 What I Learned
The Unwritten 💎

The Unwritten 💎

920 likes

A book open on a plaid blanket with a stick of butter as a bookmark, featuring the title "MUST HAVE BOOKS TO LEARN MANIPULATION," suggesting a list of books on the topic.
The book "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene, described as fascinating for understanding psychological attraction, with a warning that it can feel manipulative and should be read with caution.
The book "DARK psychology secrets" by Robert Dweck and Dan Proctor, highlighted as a scary but essential read for understanding manipulation, gaslighting, and control, to help identify toxic people.
Must have books to learn manipulation
I’ll be real—before reading these books, I thought manipulation was just something villains did in movies. Turns out, we’re ALL being manipulated daily, whether it’s by ads, politicians, or even our own friends (yikes) 😬 After reading these, I felt lowkey enlightened and slightly paranoid 🤯 But
Meredith Jao

Meredith Jao

2882 likes

A woman with dark wavy hair looks at the camera. Overlay text reads "FEMININE RESPONSES (HOW TO TALK AS A WOMAN AROUND MEN) @DcLana" and "Lemon8 @dc.lana", serving as the title card for the advice.
A red graphic with white text titled "OBNOXIOUSLY LOUD (ITS SO UNATTRACTIVE)". The text advises women to talk softer, monitor their tone, and be mindful of laughter volume, stating that being loud is unattractive.
A red graphic with white text titled "ARGUMENTATIVE (SIMPLY VOICE OPINIONS)". The text advises against arguing with men, suggesting to agree to disagree to show care and earn respect, rather than always trying to be right.
Let’s Learn How to Talk Around Men. 🌹🙂‍↔️
Hey Babes, 🌹 Here’s some of my secrets as to how I attract men. Learning how to watch your tone and language will make you more attractive than you think. I will be creating a part two very soon but hopefully this helps y’all secure a man before the holiday season.💋🙂‍↔️ Comment some of your
Dark Chocolate Queen 🤎✨

Dark Chocolate Queen 🤎✨

1126 likes

HOW TO EXIT YOUR LAZY GIRL ERA
How To Overcome Laziness – 15 Tips That Work 1. Set Clear Daily Goals Every morning when you wake up, make a habit of setting daily goals for yourself. Your mind is an amazing thing, but it needs goals to stay excited about doing routine tasks. Goals help you stay accountable and raise your
healthy101

healthy101

348 likes

My “LAZY GIRL” Step Guide
If you’re like me, some days, the thought of going outside for a long walk just isn’t happening. But guess what? You can still hit your step goal without stepping foot outside! My secret? Grow With Jo’s YouTube walk workouts! 🏡💃🏽 These indoor walking workouts are a GAME CHANGER. I just turn on a
🐞 LadyBug

🐞 LadyBug

1312 likes

Learn Who You Are🌸
This is your sign to learn who you are And unlearn who they told you to be. The world needs your unapologetic authenticity 🫶🏼 #authentic #embraceauthenticity #yourbestself #knowyourself #intuition #energyhealing #embracevulnerability #spiritual #intuitive #intuitiveenerg
Kaisha

Kaisha

116 likes

A person wears a corset made of playing cards, primarily hearts, with the text "Learn Your Cards" overlaid, symbolizing the act of understanding people.
An infographic details how to interpret body language cues from a person's eyes, lips, hands, and feet, providing specific examples and their meanings.
A list of questions and observations to help learn more about a person, including their writings, movie preferences, pet treatment, and reactions to various situations.
How To Learn About Someone Face-To-Face😉
By far the biggest influencer of how we respond to someone when we meet them is our body language. It's the outward reflection of a person's emotional condition. Here are some tips to encourage a good face-to-face communication, but be aware that different cultures may have different att
Angelina

Angelina

11K likes

A person in pink pants holds a Stanley cup and a Kindle displaying text about learning to be direct without being harsh, introducing the article's topic.
A laptop and a glass of white wine are shown with overlay text advising to use 'I' statements and emphasizing that 'Tone is everything,' with a 'Swear on Chanel' note.
Clasped hands are shown with overlay text emphasizing 'Clarity over sugarcoating' to avoid confusion and tension, and to 'Set the tone early' for honest communication.
Learn How to Be Direct Without Being Harsh 💕
This is something I wish I learned way sooner: You can be clear without being cold. You can be honest without being hurtful. You can be direct without being disrespectful. Here’s what’s helped me speak up without shutting people down: 1. Use “I” statements. Instead of “You never help,” try
Ty 😍✨✌🏽

Ty 😍✨✌🏽

141 likes

A person's hand is on a MacBook Pro keyboard, displaying the coddy.tech website with "Code Makes Perfect" and coding illustrations. The image highlights learning to code for free with this website.
A MacBook Pro screen shows the coddy.tech website's daily challenge interface, allowing users to search by programming language, choose difficulty, and access daily challenges.
A MacBook Pro screen displays the coddy.tech website, showcasing full, beginner-friendly courses like "SQL for beginners" and "Python Introduction," emphasizing practicing at one's own pace.
learn how to code for FREE! 💻
learning to code for free has never been easier with coddy.tech! 🌟 whether you're a complete beginner or looking to enhance your skills, coddy.tech offers a range of resources to help you on your coding journey. here's how you can get started: explore coding courses: coddy.tech provides
sanae ☕️

sanae ☕️

1409 likes

A title slide demonstrating how to cutout and outline images in Lemon8, featuring three women with white outlines against a blue sky background.
A blue sky background with text instructing to choose a base photo and tap the 'Stickers' icon in the Lemon8 app.
A screenshot of the Lemon8 app showing the sticker menu, with an arrow pointing to the 'Customize' option to choose an image from the gallery.
How to Cutout and Outline Without Leaving the App!
I saw a few tutorials on how to do this, but most of them included using canva. I’m lazy so I’m not doing all that 😂. I also feel like this might be a hidden tool people haven’t noticed or learned how to use yet. I hope this helped someone. Lemon🍋ters unite! We gotta look out for one another as w
Alexa Monet

Alexa Monet

2744 likes

questions to learn more about him
couples with aligned values tend to have healthier, happier, longer-lasting relationships-but can be difficult to identify values on early dates 👀 these questions will help you go deeper & really get to know whether you're a good match for each other 💌 just remember, these aren't
irianna

irianna

546 likes

How I learn 100 words 📚💌✨
☁️ Learning 100 words a day bc why not romanticising studying languages & approaching it as self care 💐swipe to peep my trackers & method 💭 #study #studytips #studygram #student #studywithme
emilie.studygram

emilie.studygram

1352 likes

A tablet displaying 'the best is yet to come' on a kitchen counter next to yogurt and a snack bar, with the title 'HOW TO GET SH*T DONE ON DAYS YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE IT'.
A desk with a laptop and tablet, illustrating 'THE 5 MINUTE RULE' with steps: set a timer, work on the task, and stop if desired, noting momentum often keeps you going.
A tablet displaying app icons and widgets, with text explaining how to 'REMOVE DIGITAL CLUTTER' by using airplane mode, focus modes, and relevant open tabs.
feeling lazy? unmotivated? ➡️ read this
these are the 7 tactics i use to get motivated & get going on those days when i JUST don’t want to!! usually even just one of these will get me going 🫶 1️⃣ 5 MINUTE RULE (the hardest part of a task is getting started) 1. set a timer for 5 minutes 2. work on the task you've put off
carley ◡̈

carley ◡̈

14.2K likes

A tablet displays a website offering a Quizlet alternative for summarizing videos. It highlights features like flashcards, notes, and user base, suggesting a fast way to learn. The text overlay emphasizes summarizing videos quickly.
A screen shows a video summary tool with features like AI chat, highlights, and related content discovery. It helps users save time by summarizing long lectures and providing key insights from video content.
An interface for structured note-taking from videos is shown, featuring AI summarization, practice tests, and flashcards. It offers various functions to organize notes and make studying more engaging.
Watch less, learn more! Try these 4 tools.
🔹 NoteGPT I used to spend hours rewatching lectures just to catch key points—until I found NoteGPT. Not only does it summarize videos, but it also has TSummary + highlight features, a built-in AI chat for deeper understanding, and even helps me discover related content. It’s like having an AI-pow
emilie.studygram

emilie.studygram

64 likes

Learn How To Sign Apple in American Sign Language
Today we are learning how to sign foods! This sign in American Sign Language is the word Apple. This is actually the first food sign i was taught and will never forget. What is your favorite food sign you like? #lemoon8partner #learnonlemon8 #americansignlanguage #asl #deaf #diisab
ThatDeafRedHead

ThatDeafRedHead

249 likes

Hình ảnh một bàn học gọn gàng với máy tính hiển thị 'progress over perfection', điện thoại hẹn giờ 25:00, đèn bàn và đồ dùng học tập. Tiêu đề 'how to study when you are lazy' được đặt bên cạnh.
Văn bản liệt kê 5 mẹo học tập khi cảm thấy lười biếng: chia nhỏ công việc, sử dụng hẹn giờ, cất điện thoại, tạo không khí và chọn nhiệm vụ dễ nhất. Tiêu đề là 'how to study when you feel lazy'.
Văn bản liệt kê 3 mẹo học tập khi cảm thấy lười biếng: phương pháp thân thiện với người lười, tự thưởng và học cùng bạn bè. Tiêu đề là 'how to study when you feel lazy'.
How to study when you feel LAZY 💤🛏️📚
It’s okay to feel lazy sometimes. Your brain needs rest too. But even a little effort today is better than none. You don’t have to do everything, just start with something small. You’re capable, even on slow days. Be kind to yourself, take a breath, and try. You’ve got this. 💖 #lemon8partner #s
teal.days

teal.days

8 likes

feeling lazy? unmotivated? ➡️ read thi
these are the 7 tactics i use to get motivated & get going on those days when i JUST don’t want to!! usually even just one of these will get me going 🫶 1️⃣ 5 MINUTE RULE (the hardest part of a task is getting started) 1. set a timer for 5 minutes 2. work on the task you'
Luna

Luna

1151 likes

Skills to Learn 2026 📚
Most people don’t feel stuck because they’re lazy. They feel stuck because no one ever showed them what skills actually matter anymore. School taught us how to follow instructions. Jobs taught us how to survive. But 2026 is rewarding something different: people who are adaptable, confide
Liz Barbie✨| digital marketing

Liz Barbie✨| digital marketing

2803 likes

Money rules you learn too late
Most financial advice focuses on investments, accounts, and strategies. But none of that matters if your daily habits are broken. Real financial growth starts with how you think about and handle money every single day. If you want 2026 to be the year your finances finally improve, start with the
Gabe

Gabe

16 likes

How to learn Xdinary Heroes' members names!
Xdinary Heroes is a Krock band under JYP entertainment! instagram: @/xdinaryheroes_official (no individual member instas yet </3) #xdinaryheroes #gunil #jungsu #gaon #ode #junhan #jooyeon #kpop
Cynder

Cynder

67 likes

A title slide with the text 'How to Remember (Nearly) Everything You Learn' and '7 science-backed techniques'. An illustration shows a person's head with books being placed inside, symbolizing knowledge acquisition.
A text slide introducing the article, stating 'Learning is a skill' and posing the question 'Am I going about this in the best way?' It announces 7 techniques to optimize learning.
A slide explaining 'Spaced Repetition is Key' with text about memory retention. A graph illustrates memory percentage over time, showing drops and increases after spaced reviews at 24 hours, 2, 4, 8, and 16 days.
How to Remember (Nearly) Everything You Learn
Remembering what you learn doesn’t require magic, just a mix of smart techniques. Instead of passively reading your notes over and over, engage with the material actively through self-testing (active recall) and revisiting it periodically (spaced repetition). Organize information in a way that make
knoweecorner

knoweecorner

2249 likes

A title card for 'Habla con Hannah Spanish Word of the Day' set against a light blue sky with clouds and distant mountains. The bottom left corner shows 'lemon8 @hablaconhannah'.
A blue-green circle on a sky background displays 'Masculine noun CIELO SKY' and '#theroadtofluency'. 'lemon8 @hablaconhannah' is visible at the bottom.
Two book covers for 'Beginner's Spanish Guide: Bonus Edition (Pink Mode)' featuring cats and books. Text promotes the guide, stating it's 'Out Now' and 'comes in pink, white, and black' for learning Spanish from scratch.
Learn how to say Sky in Spanish ✨☁️
Example: Hay pájaros en el cielo = There are birds in the sky “Cielo” is also used to say the word “heaven” so you really have to pay attention to the context of the conversation to know the difference. Pronunciation: See-Ehl-Oh #learnspanish #languagelearning #theroadtofluency
HablaconHannah

HablaconHannah

509 likes

When you think you are lazy, unmotivated, or anxious.
Most women have never been taught this. They’ve been told they’re lazy, emotional, unmotivated, dramatic, or “too much.” But many of those experiences are actually nervous system states. You are not the state you’re in. You are the person experiencing it. Understanding the difference
Bonnie | Midlife Unstuck Guide

Bonnie | Midlife Unstuck Guide

9 likes

A title slide on a light green background reads 'The How-to Guide For LADDERING LANGUAGES To Master Multiple Languages' with the creator's handle @thepolyglotfox.
A light green slide defines 'Laddering' as using one language to help learn another, with examples like Spanish for Italian, Korean for Japanese, and German for Russian.
A light green slide states that laddering is not an 'ALL OR NOTHING strategy,' encouraging users to start small and add as much as they want to their routine.
How to learn multiple languages with LADDERING
If you have never heard of laddering before, take a look at some of my other content on how it can help you in your language studies. 😁 Because, this post is about HOW you can add it to your own routine and make it doable for you! The goal with any strategy you add to your language studies, i
Bront'e | thepolyglotfox YT/IG

Bront'e | thepolyglotfox YT/IG

639 likes

how to exit your lazy girl era & be productive
We are entering our productive girl eras!! Two of the best ways to beat lazy girl syndrome is to learn how to be discipline and beat procrastination. To be disciplined means training yourself to stay consistent with the things you want to do. Learning how to be disciplined will: - get you c
Rebekah Joy

Rebekah Joy

312 likes

🦋🌸 Get To Know Me: Pt 3 🌿💚
• 🦋 • 🌸 #lemon8diarychallenge 🌿• 💚 • ________ Hehe, ;> so far, I am on Part 3 of my : “Get To Know Me” series 🦋🌸💚🌿 ______________ I’d like to say that no matter how much info you give others on the innanet, it’s truly up to you what you continue to share to people!
Dee 🔮🎥🥀

Dee 🔮🎥🥀

26 likes

It’s never too late to learn how do your hair‼️💇🏽‍♀️
#curly #curlyhair
E✨🤍

E✨🤍

281 likes

slow-paced cozy games for lazy days ✨
Let's face it—some days even playing video games that are too involved seems daunting. I can't tell you how many times I have decided against playing a game like Stardew Valley because I didn't want to focus so hard on all of my tasks. This is why it's great to have slower-paced gam
stephanie hope

stephanie hope

1367 likes

Learn How To FORGIVE!
Forgiving helps create a better life for YOURSELF. You are in control of your life, don’t let past trauma & hurt stop you from being the person you desire to be. You will never forget but you can forgive to heal your heart ❤️ Remember you’re doing this for YOU NOT THEM!!! #forgivenessheals #
TheRealTy✨🌸

TheRealTy✨🌸

488 likes

Learn How To Sign Girlfriend + Boyfriend in ASL
Today we are learning Girlfriend + Boyfriend in ASL. This is a great sign to learn as a beginner because all you need to know is the sign girl and the sign friend and just combine them! In American Sign Language, it is common to combine two or three other signs to create a new sign which is super e
ThatDeafRedHead

ThatDeafRedHead

13 likes

I wasn’t lazy!
This wasn’t about becoming a CEO This was about survival And creating peace where there was once only panic I didn’t know how I just knew I couldn’t keep living like I was So I said yes to something different And now I help other women do the same No pressure No experience needed Jus
Ashley Morrison

Ashley Morrison

1958 likes

A cat wearing pink hair rollers and sunglasses, with text overlay "BE A TECH GIRL" and "Girlies Learn Coding!", promoting coding for girls.
A cat partially visible with text "GIRL POWER" and an explanation of why coding is important for girls, highlighting the gender gap in tech and future job opportunities.
A MacBook Air displaying the Codebay website's landing page, inviting users to "Set sail on your fun, easy coding journey!" with sign-in options, introducing the recommended coding platform.
Why should girls learn to code?
Hey girls, have you ever thought about learning coding like I did? #study #learning #studywithme 👩‍💻Coding is a way to self-expression, creativity, and fostering intellectual confidence. Even if you're not planning to pursue a career in tech, learning to code can help you develop a
Aura✨

Aura✨

365 likes

A young woman holding a phone and a mug, looking unmotivated. Text overlay reads: "How I study when I feel lazy, tired, and unmotivated."
A woman looking frustrated at a messy desk with books and papers. Text overlay describes the mistake of staring at the mess and the rule of organizing one study tool for 5 minutes.
A woman at a desk with a laptop and a phone displaying a timer, looking at an open notebook. Text overlay explains using a 15-minute 'Done' Timer to start studying.
How to study when feels lazy 😟
#studyinghabits #studyingessentials #studyinghacks #studyingmethods #studyingtips
Selina 💻

Selina 💻

2 likes

A pepperoni pizza with melted cheese and herbs, featuring text overlay 'Lazy Girl Meal Plan for Weight Loss' and '1550 calories, 90gm protein'. It also includes 'lemon8 @dr.rachelpaul' and a 'save this' icon.
A breakfast meal showing ingredients like whole grain bread, cottage cheese, and eggs, alongside a prepared 'Protein Toast' dish with scrambled eggs and cottage cheese. The meal is listed as '390 cals, 29gm protein'.
A lunch meal featuring a bag of 'Taylor Farms Organic Lemon Parmesan Chopped Kit' and a bowl of shredded rotisserie chicken, next to a prepared 'Rotisserie Chicken Salad'. The meal is listed as '510 cals, 32gm protein'.
Lazy Girl Meal Plan
Follow this EASY high protein meal plan if you’re ready to see results this week 💪🍕 AND keep swiping to see some truly amazing Best Body wins 🤩 Here’s a breakdown of Best Body: 1. Personal Weight-Loss Plan: We’ll create a science-based program that works for YOU and your lifestyle 🧘‍♀️
Dr. Rachel Paul, PhD, RD

Dr. Rachel Paul, PhD, RD

588 likes

See more