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Distance

Distance teaches you who you are

when no one is pulling at you.

I didn’t disappear.

I stopped overgiving.

Stopped chasing.

Stopped proving my value.

In the quiet, I found myself.

And I’m not rushing to leave her again.

#selfrespect #quietconfidence #distanceishealing #choosingme #innerpeace

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