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"5 things about money to talk about before being together... otherwise love might break."

5 money matters that need to be discussed first

Will be together... don't just talk about love

Talk about money, or there's hope that love is broken. 💸

1. Divide or not divide?

> should have agreed from the beginning that...

Half everything?

Who paid for anything?

Or the other one out?

2. Individual liabilities

> Is there debt? How much debt?

Some people dare not say it, but know the latter may hurt more.

💬 "Love, but don't shut up about debt."

3. Common finance goals

> Want to have a home? How to save?

Keep the wedding money?

Without a common goal, relationships drift.

4. The habit of using each person's money.

> Used up every month VS collect every baht

Who grows, who's stupid, who knows before they live.

5. Money account: split or consolidated?

> To use a joint account or clearly separate?

How much to trust each other? Talk to clear from the beginning is the best.

Love is not just a matter of heart.

But planning life together.

And "money" is the important thing to keep quiet! 💬💸

# Talk about money # Life partner # Couple # Finance # Break up

2025/8/13 Edited to

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