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Hot Takes as a Mom

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A mom hack that I’ve discovered is to grab dog toys for your kids. They’re affordable, durable, and way cuter than you’d expect. The pet aisle has some of the best finds. The sizing is also perfect for little hands. Have you grabbed dog toys for your kiddo before?

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2025/9/23 Edited to

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GuillemonGoober

Honestly ngl pretty valid and smart

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