Our ROM Journey ✨

hey zesties! 🍋

Welcome to my post on the rough timeline planning towards our ROM on December 2025 🥰

𝐃𝐞𝐜𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟒

✨ Purchased wedding bands from Goldheart (they had 1-for-1 deal at that time 😆)

𝐉𝐚𝐧𝐮𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟓

✨ Enquired a photographer from Carousel

𝐀𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐥 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟓

✨ Booked a venue at The White Rabbit Hole

✨ Booked a photographer

✨ Enquired a solemniser from SingaporeBrides web

𝐉𝐮𝐧𝐞 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟓

Submitted our marriage application form

✨ Booked a solemniser

✨ Marriage application form approved

🚨 𝘋𝘰 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘶𝘣𝘮𝘪𝘵 𝘮𝘢𝘳𝘳𝘪𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘬 𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘷𝘢𝘭 𝘣𝘺 𝘴𝘰𝘭𝘦𝘮𝘯𝘪𝘴𝘦𝘳 𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘙𝘖𝘔 𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘭 𝘪𝘴 6 𝒎𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒉𝒔 𝒃𝒆𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒔𝒐𝒍𝒆𝒎𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒅𝒂𝒕𝒆!

𝐀𝐮𝐠𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟓

✨ Printed out our marriage certificate

✨ Purchased hardcover certificate holder from TaoBao

✨ Purchased vow cards from TaoBao

𝐎𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟓

✨ Booked a caterer from Foodline

✨ Enquired a printing service to print out 4 hardcover books of our PWS from TaoBao

𝐃𝐞𝐜𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟓

✨ Purchased DIY calendar from Carousel

✨ Purchased DIY message board from Shopee

✨ Handmade bridal flowers by aunt

Feel free to drop me a PM if you’ve any questions! 🙌🏻

#MyPOV #MyFreeTime #RealTalk #WhyILemon8 #rom

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... Read morePlanning a ROM (Registry of Marriages) can feel overwhelming, but breaking it down into clear steps makes the process more manageable and enjoyable. From my experience, starting early—purchasing wedding bands a year before the big day—helped set a positive tone and reduce last-minute stress. One key tip is to book your venue and photographer months in advance, as popular places can get fully booked quickly. It’s also essential to remember that submission of the marriage application form with the solemniser’s approval must be done at least six months before the solemnisation date, so mark your calendar accordingly. In addition to formal tasks like booking caterers and printing materials, small personal touches such as DIY calendar gifts or handmade floral arrangements add a heartfelt charm to the day. I found shopping on platforms like TaoBao and Shopee cost-effective and convenient for unique wedding supplies. Lastly, engaging with communities via social hashtags like #ROMJourney or #RealTalk can provide support and answer practical questions. Feel free to reach out if you want to hear more about my experience or need tips on your ROM planning!

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