WEANING ADVICE?

Hey y’all 😭 my daughter is 20 months old. She still nurses VERY frequently and still does so multiple times every single night. I’m wanting to wean because she bites a lot and I’m always sore/it hurts to nurse. I feel so bad for wanting to wean, she’s not even 2 and she clearly loves it, it’s such a comfort thing for her 🙁 I feel like I’m failing her but I’m just in so much pain all the time. Does anyone have any advice? I don’t want to take comfort away from her but I’m so exhausted. Please don’t judge 😭

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2024/9/27 Edited to

... Read moreWeaning is a significant transition for both mothers and toddlers. At around 20 months, many children still find comfort in breastfeeding, which can make it difficult for moms needing relief from discomfort. When weaning, it is essential to approach the process gently. Gradual reduction in nursing sessions can help ease the toddler into this new phase, preserving the emotional bond while transitioning smoothly. Consider introducing alternative comfort methods, such as cuddling or playing, to help your child adjust. Common techniques for easing the weaning process include offering a favorite toy or engaging in a new activity during typical nursing times. It’s also beneficial to communicate in simple terms with your toddler about the changes, explaining that they are growing up. Joining support groups or communities can provide additional support, as connecting with other mothers who are experiencing similar challenges can be reassuring. Remember, every child's weaning journey is unique; finding the right approach may take time and patience. Don't hesitate to seek advice from healthcare professionals or lactation consultants for personalized guidance tailored to your situation. Your feelings of exhaustion and discomfort are valid, and prioritizing your well-being is crucial as you navigate this transition.

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My mom was having the same issue with my brother. He was almost 3 years old. She started to only feed him in the morning and night only if he asked for it during the day she gave him something to take his mind off of it. Then she started to wean him to nurse only at night. And eventually he decided he didn’t need it.

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