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... Read moreจากที่ได้เรียนรู้เรื่องสมองส่วนที่เรียกว่า amygdala ซึ่งเป็นส่วนที่เกี่ยวข้องกับการประมวลผลอารมณ์และความทรงจำที่มีผลต่อตัวเราโดยตรง ผมเข้าใจว่าร่างกายของเราต้องมีการตอบสนองต่อเรื่องแย่ๆ เพื่อการเอาตัวรอดของเผ่าพันธุ์ในยุคดึกดำบรรพ์ แต่ในสังคมปัจจุบันที่ไม่จำเป็นต้องอยู่ในภาวะคับขันแบบนั้น สมองกลับยังทำงานในลักษณะเดียวกัน ผมลองฝึกจดบันทึกเรื่องดีๆ ที่เกิดขึ้นในแต่ละวัน เพื่อช่วยให้สมองฝึกจดจำและโฟกัสที่สิ่งดีมากขึ้น เช่น การได้รับคำชมเล็กๆ น้อยๆ หรือรอยยิ้มที่ทำให้หัวใจอบอุ่น วิธีนี้ช่วยลดผลกระทบทางจิตใจจากเรื่องราวที่ไม่ดีและสร้างสมดุลทางอารมณ์ในชีวิต นอกจากนี้ยังมีเรื่องของยาลบความทรงจำที่กำลังได้รับการศึกษาวิจัย ซึ่งในอนาคตอาจช่วยให้ผู้ที่มีความทรงจำเจ็บปวดสามารถเลือกจัดการกับอดีตได้ง่ายขึ้น แต่ในตอนนี้ การฝึกสมองและใจด้วยวิธีธรรมชาติอย่างการจดเรื่องดีๆ นั้นเป็นทางเลือกที่ปลอดภัยและเหมาะสมที่สุดสำหรับทุกคน

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